Praise & Self-Worth
What is Self-Concept?
What you think about yoursef
When does the bond between you and your child begin?
At birth
What is the "E" SPICES?
Emotional
Needs dictate our _____________
Behavior
Building personal power is called
Empowerment
What is Self-Esteem?
How you feel about yourself.
What is an appropriate expectation for a baby?
To cry when they need something.
What is the "C" SPICES?
Creative
Who is the spoiled child?
One who constantly demands, whines, shows unreasonableness, hoards things, is clingy and generally is a pain to be with.
What is empathy?
Putting yourself in someone else's shoes. Looking at things from someone else's perspective.
What is Self-Worth?
Self-Esteem and Self-Concept
What is an appropriate expectation for a one year old?
To grab things.
What is the "I" SPICES?
Intellectual
Who is the overly dependent child?
One who has been "smothered" with love.
Parents do everything for them and their incompetence in getting their own needs met forces their dependence on others.
What is personal power?
The capacity we have to influence conditions in our life and in the lives of others.
What is difference between Praise for Being and Praise for doing?
Praise for Being is unconditional. Just for who they are. Praise for doing is conditional. Based on what they have done.
What is an example of how you bond with your baby?
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What is the "P" SPICES?
Physical
Who is the aggressive child?
Has to fend for himself; often lacks warmth; generally has received harshness and aggression from parent interactions.
You have to show up for __________ before you show up for ____________.
You have to show up for yourself before you show up for anyone else.
What is the highest form of Praise?
What is attunement?
Being present and responsive to the child's needs.
What is the two "S" SPICES?
Social and Spiritual
What should we do with our emotions and how should we handle it?
We should express them and react with caution because how we act can cost us more than we want to pay.
What does Nurturing mean to you?
Bonus Question