With Friends
Your best friend has a new toy that you really like. You ask to see it and they say no. What do you do?
What is to walk away or find something else to play with.
Try a new way, make a plan, walk away
Your brother or sister borrowed something important from you and has not given it back. What do you do?
What is to ask them for it or let a parent now you need it.
Talk it out, ask for help
The person next to you in class keeps trying to look at your paper during a test. What do you do?
What is to make where your paper is or tell them to stop.
Try something new, ask them to stop, ask for help
What is to go and find something else to do, or sit back and watch.
Find a new way, let it go, walk away
You go to sit down at lunch but your seat is taken by someone. What do you do?
What is to find another seat or ask that person to move.
Talk it out, find a new way, walk away, let it go
You see your friend whispering to someone else and looking at you. When you come over, they stop talking. What do you do?
What is to say hi or ask what they are up to.
Let it go, ignore, talk it out
You asked your parents if you could have a friend over this weekend and they said no. Now, you are mad. What can you do?
What is to do something to help you calm down like listen to music or play a game. You can also find something else to do instead.
Try a new way, let it go, find a win-win
The person next to you keeps poking you with a pencil during silent reading. It is annoying you. What can you do?
Ask them to stop, talk it out, ask for help
You see kids playing on the swings. You want to use the swings, too, but they are all taken. What do you do?
What is to wait my turn until a swing is open, find something else to do
Take turns, talk it out, find a new way
You ask to sit with a friend but they say the seat is already saved for someone else. What do you do?
What is to find a new seat
Find a new way, let it go, talk it out, make a plan
Yesterday, your friend said something mean to you that hurt your feelings. Today, they apologize and want to be your friends again. What do you do?
What is to accept their apology and forgive the, or that you might need more time to get over it.
Talk it out, make a deal, make a plan
You asked your parents if you could have a snack before dinner and they said no. You see your sibling eating a snack, though. What do you do?
What is to walk away and ignore it so that you don't say something to get yourself in trouble. You can wait until dinner is ready.
Ignore, walk away, talk it out
During snack, you see someone brought in a big chocolate bar but those are not allowed in class. What do you do?
What is to ignore it.
Ignore, Walk away, let it go
You see someone climbing on the swing set. You know you are not supposed to do that. What do you do?
Try a new way, walk away, ignore, ask for help
A friend asks if you will give them part of your lunch because they forgot to bring theirs. What do you do?
What is to ask them if they can ask an adult for food, or ask them to look in the share basket.
Talk it out, ask for help, find a new way
You really wanted to try your friend's new pen so you took it when they were not looking. Now your friend is mad. What can you do?
What is to apologize and let them know you should have asked first.
Talk it out, make a plan, make a deal
Your sibling has been hogging the t.v. for about an hour and you want a turn. What do you do?
What is to ask them for a turn. If they say no, you can find something else to do. You can agree on what to watch.
Take turns, talk it out, find a win-win
Someone in class is chewing gum. The noise is bothering you and you know gum isn't allowed in school. What do you do?
What is to ask them to stop, let them know it is distracting you, or move seats.
Ask them to stop, talk it out, walk away/try a new way
While running, you see someone fall and get hurt. They skinned their knee and they are crying. What do you do?
What is to stop and ask f they are okay or get an adult
Make a plan, ask for help
You are in lunch line when you realize the lunch being served is something you absolutely hate. What do you do?
What is to eat the other food that comes with your lunch or ask if there is another option.
try a new way, make a plan, ask for help
You let our friend borrow your favorite book. When they give it back, some of the pages are ripped. What do you do?
What is to ask them what happened. You might ask them to help you tape the pages. You could just let it go and find another one of that same book.
Talk it out, let it go, make a deal
You asked your sibling if you could borrow something of theirs and they said no. What can you do?
What is to walk away, find something else to do, or ask again in a nicer way.
walk away, talk it out, try a new way
The teacher says there will be a partner project and you need to find a partner. You go to your friend that you want to work with but they say they already have a partner. What do you do?
What is to find someone else or work on your own
try a new way, let it go
You see 2 kids pushing each other pretty hard. You are not sure if they are playing or fighting. What do you do?
What is to let an adult know so that no one gets hurt.
Talk it out, ask for help
Someone at your lunch table reaches over and takes some of your food. What do you do?
What is to ask them to stop or tell an adult if they continue
Ask them to stop, move seats/try a new way, ask for help