Feelings
You are playing basketball and accidentally get hit by the ball in the stomach. How do you feel?
Hurt, upset, sad
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
You can listen to them, offer support, try to cheer them up
Sometimes we can have sad feelings. What should you do when you feel sad?
Ask to take a break, give yourself lot of positive self talk, talk to an adult
When you join groups or teams, you should greet everyone and ask people how they're doing. True or false.
True. It makes people feel welcome into the group & it's nice to have conversation before group/game begins.
What is Tattling?
How might you feel if someone you are trying to talk to is ignoring you?
Sad, confused, or upset
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Apologize, say sorry, and listen
What could we do if we are getting and answer we do not like?
Ask if you can take a break; take deep breaths; talk to a staff or teacher about it; use encouraging self-talk in your head
True or False. When someone says you did something wrong they are being mean.
False- most of the time when someone tells you that you have done something wrong they are only trying to help you.
What is Telling?
Alerting an adult to keep someone safe from harm.
How might you feel if your best friend is talking about the really cool things that her mom just bought her?
Jealous or happy for her
People are making fun of your friend and you see them calling him names. What should you do?
Stand up for your friend and tell an adult if needed Talk to your friend after and make sure they're ok.
What can you do if you are feeling angry?
Talk to your staff, support person or teacher. Use one of your coping skills.
Why is it important to stay on topic during a conversation?
It makes others happy, shows you are interested
What does Tattling look like?
Kid Size Problem, to Get Someone in Trouble, Something Done by Accident, No one is in Danger, No one is Hurt.
"He is looking at me!"
"He isn't sharing!"
How might someone feel if they have done something wrong and they know it was wrong?
Guilty, worried
Your staff gives you a consequence that you don't feel is appropriate. What should you say/do?
Accept the consequence.
Calmly express your feelings.
Follow Through.
A friend said something that hurt your feelings. What can you do?
Tell them how you feel with a nice voice and explain why.
Avoid yelling at them.
Try and use I statements
If you feel you are being bullied, who should you talk to?
Staff, Parents, Teachers, Adults
What does Telling look like?
Adult Size Problem, Something Done on Purpose, Someone is in Danger, Someone is Hurt
True or False- you should never be angry
False. It is ok to feel any feeling you feel. But how you express those feelings has to be appropriate
You and Your peer both want to use the house soccer ball. What could you do?
Share, Play Together, Take Turns
What is the best way to deal with a group member that keeps talking over you?
Say "excuse me ____ but I was still speaking." Then continue with what you were saying before.
What is bullying?
It can look like threatening, verbal and physical behaviours. When one person is trying to intimidate another person.
True or False: You can solve these issues on your own?
False
Tattling: You can solve it on your own!
Telling: You can't Solve it on your own!