Boundaries are Valid
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Relationships
ISIS House Tings
100
Why are boundaries valid?
It is up to us to communicate to others, what others do with that information isn't our responsibility. It's hard to memorize every single person's boundary so it's always important to repeat and reinforce it ourselves! Other answers: safety, accessibility, access needs, accommodations, overall wellbeing
100
What game did we play as our warm-up?
MadLibs!
100
What's something important to do in the beginning or start of a relationship?
Setting boundaries or expectations and communicating it
100
What are ISIS House expectations while you are staying here?
Either in school or working or working on that
200
DAILY DOUBLE: Name at least one of the types of boundaries. (Daily double if you can get all 7!)
200
DAILY DOUBLE: What are the 2 types of letters? (Daily double if you can give examples of each!)
Informal and Formal
200
What are the different types of relationships a person can have?
Romantic, platonic/friendship, working/professional, medical/assistive, mentorship, toxic, healthy
200
How many hours of productivity should you maintain each week? (Daily double if you can give examples!)
40 hours - working, studying, attending programming, appointments, meetings with Case Manager, attending YouthCare programming, working on goals with Engagement Specialists
300
Give an example of how you would state a boundary and when.
Any if you stated an example :D
300
Why are letters important or what is it used for?
Legal documents, proof, documenting/tracking, communication
300
What are the steps to take when a working/professional relationship is being unhealthy or hostile?
Document, address it with the other person or speak with a supervisor, tell HR, submit a grievance, leave the job and find a healthier work environment
300
What are some chore guidelines?
Do your own chore; ask a staff member for assistance in completing a chore; describing where to find where chore supplies are; telling a staff member if a chore has not been done or has been done or what supplies are needed; should be completed daily
400
How can you visualize your boundaries? (Hint: What activity did we do during the workshop?)
Using a circle!
400
What components are necessary in actually addressing a letter?
Recipient's address and title, date, introduction, explain why you are writing, conclusion, your name and information
400
What do you do if the other person is going against or pushing back on your values/morals?
Depends on the situation, it could be a conversation about no compromising or ending the relationship.
400
What is the staff phone number?
206-225-4793
500
What are the 4 steps in setting boundaries?
1. Identify your boundaries
2. Identify your values
3. Practice saying no or stating what you want
4. Reflect or ask for support
500
Address an envelope! You are sending it to DSHS for additional document that you need for EBT.
Staff check if all components are on letter: space for stamp, recipient's name and address, sender's name and address
500
What are characteristics of a healthy relationship?
Open communication, trust, consent, equal decision making, respect for boundaries, safety, appreciation, support, being able to be your true self
500
What are the types of staff members here in ISIS and what do you go to them for?
Program Manager - All things concerning with your stay here at ISIS; Case Manager - Anything to do with access to services and long-term goals; Engagement Specialist - Support with daily tasks and goals