RAPP Workshop Review

Definitions

100

R.A.P.P. stands for this.

What is the Relationship Abuse Prevention Program?

200

To actively agree to participate in something.

What is consent?

300

What is a pattern of gaining or maintaining power and control over a partner?

What is relationship abuse?

400

The limits and rules we set for ourselves within relationships to be comfortable.

What are boundaries?

500

Any unwanted sexual attention that makes a person feel unsafe, uncomfortable or threatened.

What is sexual harassment?

Qualities of a healthy relationship

100

• Alternate paying for activities
• Have no expectation for money spent on you or gifts given to you
• Have no expectation for favors in exchange for money spent or gifts

What is economic partnership?

200

• Sharing with each other openly and honestly
• Talking about things calmly without being hurtful or bossy

What is communication?

300

• Behaving in a way so that your partner feels safe and comfortable to express themselves
• No pressure, manipulation, or intimidation to do things

What is non-threatening behavior?

400

• Valuing the other person’s opinions and feelings
• Showing regard for the other person’s worth and abilities

What is respect?

500

• Each person is an individual in the relationship
• Not dependent on each other for happiness
• Both partners have their own time to spend with others & and pursue own interests

What is independence and autonomy?

Consent (FRIES)

100

Consent is about doing things you really WANT to do, and are excited to do! (Hint: starts with an E)

What is Enthuasiastic?

200

Consent is not pressured, coerced, manipulated, or forced in any way. (Hint: F____ G____)

What is FREELY GIVEN?

300

Consent is limited to a particular act and time. Saying yes to one thing does not mean saying yes to everything. (Hint: starts with an S)

What is SPECIFIC?

400

Everyone is fully aware of potential consequences and risks, including those related to STIs, pregnancy, etc. 

(Hint: starts with an I)

What is INFORMED?

500

Consent can be taken back at any time. Everyone is allowed to change their mind! (Hint: starts with an R)

What is REVERSIBLE?

Types of abuse

100

Any behavior intended to cause bodily harm or injury. Examples: punching, pushing, kicking, slapping, hair pulling, pinching, choking.

What is physical abuse?

200

Using words to assault, dominate, ridicule, manipulate, and/or degrade another person. Examples include insults, yelling, and name calling.

What is verbal abuse?

300

Preventing a partner from acquiring or using resources, or exploiting a partner’s resources. Examples include not letting someone go to school or work.

What is financial/economic abuse?

400

Use of digital media or devices to control, coerce, or intimidate. Examples include using a fake phone number or account after being blocked, repeated calls or messages to insult or threaten you, or tracking your location.

What is technological abuse?

500

Non-physical behaviors that are meant to humiliate, isolate, or instill fear. Examples include guilt tripping, blaming you for their mistakes, unfounded accusations, and controlling who you see or what you do.

What is emotional abuse?