VIBES CHECK
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
NAILED IT OR FAILED IT?
SOCIAL DECODER
CRINGE OR SMOOTH?
100

If people are laughing and joking, it’s usually okay to join in with something funny.

True – As long as your joke matches the vibe and isn’t interrupting!

100

 You walk into class and everyone is staring at the floor. One person looks like they’ve been crying.

Stay quiet, check the mood. Maybe sit nearby and whisper, “You okay?”

100

Someone enters a call where people are smiling and says, “Looks like I came at a good time!”

Nailed It – They matched the energy and showed interest.

100

When people are bored, they usually look _________.

Answer: Down, away, fidgety, slouched

100

You join a group chat, say “LOL anyone here?” five times in a row.

Cringe – That’s too much. Wait and read the vibe first.

200

If people are serious or quiet, it’s helpful to lighten the mood with a loud joke.

False – That can feel disrespectful. Match the group’s tone first.


200

You send three messages in the group chat. No one replies.

Pause. Don’t spam. People might be busy. Try again later.

200

You walk into a quiet room and say, “YO WHAT’S UP?! Let’s GOOO!!”

Failed It – Whoa. That energy mismatch is real.

200

When a group is excited, they’re probably ________.

Answer: Smiling, talking fast, laughing, loud

200

Your friend group is laughing about a meme. You say, “Wait, I don’t get it—explain it all.”

Cringe… but forgivable – Better to laugh along and ask later.

300

Reading the room only matters during serious conversations.

 False – It’s important in all social situations.

300

You’re in a group, but every time you speak, people keep talking over you.

Wait for a pause, try saying a name first, or ask a direct question to re-engage.

300

Your friend keeps interrupting during a serious group project.

 Failed It – Focused group = time to hold back on interruptions

300

If you’re not sure how to join a group, you can ask: “_________?”

Answer: “Mind if I join?” or “What are you talking about?”

300

 You see a serious conversation and wait quietly until someone speaks to you.

Answer: Smooth – Respectful and aware.

400

If someone is looking down and not talking, they always want to be left alone.

False – Sometimes they do, but sometimes they’re waiting to be invited in.

400

You just told a joke, and everyone goes silent.

Don’t panic. Change the subject or say “Anyway…” to move on.

400

A student notices someone left out and says, “Wanna join our group?”

Nailed It – Kind, inclusive, and good social awareness.

400

You can tell someone feels left out if they’re __________.

Answer: Sitting alone, not speaking, looking away


400

Everyone’s quiet in class, and you drop your water bottle dramatically on the floor.

Cringe – Not the time for chaos.

500

You can read the room by paying attention to body language, tone, and faces.

True – Those are your social clues!

500

You notice one person isn’t being included in the group activity.

Invite them in! “Hey, want to join us?” Small gestures = big difference.

500

You hear people laughing and say a joke to join in. Everyone laughs more.

Nailed It – Well-timed and on-point. That’s reading the room like a pro!


500

Reading the room helps us avoid saying the ________ thing at the ________ time.

 Answer: Wrong / Wrong

500

You say “Hey! Looks like a party!” when you join a group of friends who are laughing.

Answer: Smooth – Friendly, light, and matches the energy.

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