Boundaries
Boundaries are......
The invisible line between myself and others. They are designed to keep myself safe and respect others
Can friendships be abusive/toxic?
A sign of healthy relationship in a romantic relationship is.....
Examples:
A SO that encourages you to have your own interests, friends, etc
Tell me 3 types of abuse
Will accept:
physical
verbal
emotional
sexual
financial
Ms. Kelsey usually drinks ______ in the morning
Tea
A sign of a healthy boundary is.....
Examples:
Being able to verbalize if someone upsets you
Respecting you and the other person
Maintaining your own morals/values
Is this healthy or unhealthy in a friendship:
Alex and Jordan are both trying out for the soccer team but Alex makes it while Jordan doesn’t. Jordan decides to stop talking to Alex because he is so embarrassed.
Unhealthy
True or false:
Your SO wants access to your phone and to see everything you do. This is a sign of a loving relationship
False, This is a sign of a unhealthy relationship
If someone is abusing you, you should......
Tell someone/get help
Ms. Kelsey shares a office with....
Mr. Fields
If someone trauma dumps within the first few times of talking to you, they might have what kind of boundaries?
Collapsed
What would be a yellow flag in a friendship?
Examples:
Someone that is iffy about your boundaries
Someone that sometimes disrespects your boundaries and sometimes respects them
Someone that makes plans but then cancels a lot
Give me three red flags in a romantic relationship
Examples:
Controlling
Isolating
Put downs
Wants you to focus solely on them
On average, how many times does it take someone to leave a abusive relationship?
7 times
Ms. Kelsey's first child is a.....
boy
Someone that has closed their self off completely/believes they don't need any help from others most likely has what type of boundaries
Rigid Boundaries
Is this a sign of a healthy or unhealth relationship:
Arianna and Maddie have been friends for a while and have always been there for each other. Lately, Arianna has been sharing about her mental health to Maddie but Maddie has begun to show less interest/trying to change the topic and even trying to tell Arianna she can’t help with this stuff. Arianna has no one else to talk to so she keeps telling Maddie about her mental health.
Unhealthy
What's a big factor that keeps many adults in a abusive relationship?
Kids or money
True or False:
Abuse starts off hardcore (punching, hitting, etc)
No, it usually builds from things like put downs, isolation, gaslighting, etc
True or False: Ms. Kelsey has a cat
False
The 3 types of boundaries are called
Rigid
Healthy
Permissive/Collapsed/Weak
A healthy friendship should focus on what....
Examples:
respecting each other
listening and sharing
supporting each other
In a abusive relationship there is often a term used to describe how that relationship cycles through abuse. What is it called and can you name any stages?
Cycle of Abuse Model:
Tension building (walking on egg shells)
Incident (blow up: physical or verbal)
Honeymoon (they love bomb you, I'm so sorry, etc)
Repeat
In the show Maid, the one character said "abuse is like ______. It grows everywhere"
Mold
Ms. Kelsey used to play.....
rugby