COPING SKILLS
FAMILY ROLES
STAGES-OF-CHANGE
SELF-ESTEEM
100

a great way to express, release, and work out any thoughts and feelings you may be dealing with.

WHAT IS JOURNALING

100

FUNNY HYSTERICAL, WILL DO ANYTHING FOR A LAUGH. CUTE, IMMATURE

WHO IS THE CLOWN/MASCOT

100

Identifying and developing effective ways of coping with stress are crucial during THIS STAGE:

WHAT IS ACTION

100

WATERING YOUR OWN GRASS AND LANDSCAPING YOUR OWN LIFE

WHAT IS NOT COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS

200

can help you work through difficult thoughts and emotions, focus on the present moment, and observe your internal feelings and accept them without judgment or negativity.

WHAT IS MINDFULLNESS MEDITATION

200

"BAD," ANGRY, IMPULSIVE, NEVER GOOD ENOUGH. "BLACK SHEEP" OF FAMILY, DOESN'T FIT IN

WHO IS THE SCAPEGOAT

200

THIS STAGE: people typically benefit from non-judgmental information-giving and motivational approaches to encouraging change (rather than confrontational methods).

WHAT IS CONTEMPLATION

200

Recognize and acknowledge what you did, let go of punishing yourself, and commit to doing things differently in the future.

WHAT IS FORGIVING YOURSELF

300

helps relieve stress, diminishes feelings of depression, and helps get rid of the chemicals and toxins your body has absorbed from drug and alcohol abuse.

WHAT IS PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES/WORKING OUT

300

PERFECT, CAN'T BE WRONG. GETS POSITIVE ATTENTION, AWARDS, AND DEGREES

WHO IS THE HERO
300

THIS STAGE: means a person has moved forward to planning and preparing for carrying out changes they learned about in the contemplation stage.

WHAT IS PREPARATION

300

Repeating these, can help transform negative self-talk into a more optimistic view of the self.

WHAT ARE POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS

400

you can start to hear words of encouragement and support – whispered to you in your own voice.

WHAT IS POSITIVE SELF-TALK

400

IGNORED, QUIET, INVISIBLE, LOVES ANIMALS, MATERIAL POSSESSIONS, ARTISTIC, SOMETIMES HAS LEARNING DISABILITIES

WHO IS THE LOST CHILD

400

THIS STAGE: Is most challenging after a period of time has elapsed and the focus on reaching the goal has lost its intensity. People can become complacent at this point, and they may begin to think that a small lapse will make no real difference.

WHAT IS MAINTANENCE

400

Opportunities to build YOUR self-esteem simply by acknowledging the kind words of others.

WHAT IS ACCEPTING A COMPLIMENT

500

is a powerful tool in coping, has the power to take the listener along any emotional path chosen.

WHAT IS MUSIC

500

a person who encourages or enables negative or self-destructive behavior in another.

WHO IS THE ENABLER

500

When people are in THIS STAGE, they are often not very interested in hearing about negative consequences or advice to quit their addiction.

WHAT IS PRE-CONTEMPLATION

500

readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.

WHAT IS GRATITUDE

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