Recovery
emotional intelligence
Types on Negative Self-Talk
Core coping skills
E.F.T. & A.C.T.
100

Meditation, mindfulness, exercise, therapy, calling a sober friend, and thinking of consequences are all examples of this useful tool in recovery.

What is a coping skill?

100

This emotion focuses one on mastery and control 

What is Anger 

100

this negative self-talk has characteristics involved in anticipating the worst case scenario  

What is 'The Worrier'

100

this coping skill helps one diffuse from unwanted thoughts and focuses on resiliency 

What is the three D's; Distract, distance and dispute 

100

This is the C in ACT therapy 

What is committed action 

200
Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, and Gambler's Anonymous are all examples of programs with this type of format that can support you in recovery.
What are 12-Step Fellowships?
200

This emotion focuses us on hiding transgressions and, if these are already in the public, engaging in appeasement-related behaviors. 

What is Shame 

200

This type of negative self-talk has characteristics that tells you that you are not making progress or that the road is too long or steep for you to have a real chance at recovering   

What is 'The Victim' 

200

These are said to be the three ingrediencies to Shame 

The three S's; Secrecy, silence and self-judgement 

200

these are the first and third principles in EFT with the middle principle being emotional expression   

What is emotional awareness and reflection  

300

this is the fourth skill in the AA 12 steps 

What is moral inventory 

300

This emotion focuses us on what is valued and the pursuit of goals; there is a perceived irrevocable loss   

What is sadness 

300

this negative self talk has the characteristic of jumping on mistakes you made in the past and reminds you that you are a failure 

What is 'the critic' 

300

this core skills involve mental processes that are good for reinforcing behaviors and has the acronym S.I.P.  

What are social incentives, Immediate rewards and progress monitoring 

300

this is one of six principles in ACT that is known as an over arching goal and is loosely motiving due to environmental demands, constraints and resources (daily double)      

What are values 

400

This individual would, or might, become aware of the early warning signs to a lapse or relapse  

What is a sponsor or 'sober buddy'

400

This emotion focuses us on continuing activities that enhance pleasure and personal and social value. 

What is happiness 

400

this internal self talk convinces you that your self-worth is dependent on externals 

What is 'the perfectionist'

400

These are coping potentials, or forms of coping, that are said to particularly work well with fear and anxiety and have the acronym P.P.R.  

What is preventive, Proactive and Reactive forms of coping 

400

in ACT this is formed after repeated committed actions and awareness of self; known as S____-as-C_____ and involves a separation from content and context of past actions which one learns to accept    

What is Self-as-context 

500
Psychologist Milton Erickson asked an alcohol user struggling with sobriety to contemplate this plant, which subsequently caused the alcohol user to gain and maintain his sobriety.
What is a cactus? "could go for three years without water and not die"
500

Negative emotions are thought to focus attention and awareness while posit emotions are thought to do this to ones awareness 

What is broaden 

500

This type of approach in countering negative self-talk involves looking at the whole picture, asking is this "always true" and has this been true in the past; named after a famous philosopher whose name starts with an 'S' and is known as the ________________ approach which exposes a negative argument to rational investigation (daily triple)  

What is the Socratic Approach 

500

These three coping principles are under the theory of self-determination; known as the three C's 

What is Control, Competence and Connection 

500

This is the last principle in EFT and shares a relation with DBT involving many different daily behaviors one can do and a plethora of skills  

What is emotional regulation 

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