Meditation, mindfulness, exercise, therapy, calling a sober friend, and thinking of consequences are all examples of this useful tool in recovery.
What is a coping skill?
"All or nothing thinking". Describes thinking in extreme terms, or only 2 options when the issue could be much more complicated.
Black and white thinking
"I messed up at work again. I am completely useless."
Labeling
Dismissing positive information, or saying that they don't count.
Discounting the positive
“If I fail this test, I will never pass school, and I will be a total failure in life.”
Catastrophizing
Assuming that because we feel so strongly about something, it must be true.
Emotional reasoning
I was wrong in class today, everyone probably thinks I'm an idiot.
Jumping to conlcusions (mind reading)
"We admitted we were powerless over our addiction and our lives had become unmanageable."
Step 1
Only paying attention to certain types of evidence (only seeing the negative).
Mental Filter
"I got a raise at work but it was just a fluke. I dont really deserve it"
Discounting the positive
Made a list of all persons we have harmed, and became willing to make amends."
Step Eight
Blaming yourself for something that was not entirely your fault.
Personalization
"If I don't pass my drivers test this time i will never be able to drive a car in my life"
Over-generalization