Meditation, mindfulness, exercise, therapy, calling a sober friend, and thinking of consequences are all examples of this useful tool in recovery.
What is a coping skill?
this describes the 3 D's to building resilience
What is Distract, distance and dispute
this dialectical skill involves living life on life terms and responding vigilantly to what is effective in the situation given the demands, constrains and resources of my environment
What is willingness over willfulness?
For there to be any emotion, whether it be positive or negative, there must first be this
What is a goal?
When experencing a craving this skill is recommended to calm one self down before responding to situations and is the B in the SOBER acronym (stop, observe,_____, evaluate, respond)
What is breathing
This skill involves acting opposite to the action urge if the emotion doesn't fit the facts, or it would maladaptive to act on the emotion in the moment
What is opposite action?
this emotions communicates, or focuses one on, control mastery and blame
What is anger?
These are the big three contributors to relapse in the 1st year
What are negative emotional states, interpersonal conflicts and social stressors
daily triple!!! involving interpersonal effectiveness, the GIVE skill stands for what
What is be gentle, act interested, validate and have an easy manner?
negative emotions focus awareness to a point of concern to problem solve, while positive emotions do this
Broaden awareness
this is what it is called when you wait a craving out until it ends
What is urge surfing
This distress tolerance skill involves the use of imagery, meaning, prayer, handing one crisis at a time, relaxation, taking a mini vacation or encouraging oneself
What is IMPROVE?
This emotion communicates that we may need help, that some goal has been lost, or that something is being perceived as irrevocable in which one should either seek to find redemption in the loss to cope and/or attempt to restore on some level what has been lost
What is Sadness?
When having a craving is is better to not think of 'why' you want to stay sober but....
What is 'How' you can remain sober for the rest of the day
This DBT skill leads to freedom from suffering; but doesn't not necessarily mean we approve of something
What is Radical acceptance?
Daily double!!!! in a mounted effort to avoid loss, restore what has been lost or manage the distress these 5 emotions are apt to be accompanied by sadness and they begin with the letters: A,G,S,E and H
What is anger, guilt, shame , envy or Hope