Healthy Love
What is one trait/behavior that makes a relationship healthy?
Respect
Trust
Honesty
Communication
True or False: It's healthy to have friends outside of your relationship
True
What is it called when someone makes fun of you or says things that make you feel bad about yourself?
Belittling
You have the right to say ____ if you aren't comfortable doing something
NO
Your partner wants to watch a movie you don't like. How could you handle it in a healthy way?
Talk about it, take turns choosing, or find something you both enjoy.
True or False: Being in a relationship means you should spend all of your free time together.
False - both people deserve to have independence
Your partner encourages you to try new things and celebrates your successes without jealousy. Red flag or green flag?
Green flag
Your partner says,"if you really loved me, you would cancel your plans and stay with me." What behavior is this?
Guilting - using guilt to influence choices
True or False: Being someone's partner means you are entitled to their phone password
False - a relationship doesn't remove someone's right to privacy
Your friend says their partner makes fun of them in front of other people. What could you say to support your friend?
Listen, acknowledge their feelings, and remind them they deserve respect.
Your partner is honest with you, even when the conversation is difficult. Which healthy relationship sign is this?
Honesty
Your partner gets jealous and tells you that you're no longer allowed to hang out with your best friend. What unhealthy behavior is the partner showing?
Possessiveness
Isolation
Manipulation
Your partner keeps you from seeing your friends and family. What unhealthy sign is this?
Isolation
Your partner wants to move faster in the relationship than you do. What is one healthy thing you can do?
Honesty - be honest about your comfort levels and communicate your boundaries
You and your partner disagree about something important. Name one healthy way to work through it.
Listen to each other, talk respectfully, and try to understand each other's perspective.
Both partners put effort into making the relationship work. Which healthy relationship sign does this show?
Equality
Your partner tells you they love you after knowing you for two days and pressures you to commit immediately. Which unhealthy sign might this show?
Intensity
Possessiveness
Every time your partner hurts your feelings, they say, "it's your fault I acted that way." What unhealthy sign does this show?
Deflecting responsibility - making excuses instead owning their behavior
Your partner says you can't go out with friends because they want you all to themselves. What healthy relationship sign is being disregarded?
Your partner gets angry when you spend time with friends and says you must not love them enough. What would you say or do?
Explain that friendships and independence matter, maintain your boundary, and seek support if the behavior continues or feels unsafe.
Your partner makes a mistake, apologizes, and works to do better moving forward. Name two healthy relationship signs this demonstrates.
Taking responsibility
Honesty
Respect
Healthy Communication
Your partner repeatedly lies about something important and intentionally hides the truth. Which unhealthy relationship sign is the best fit?
Betrayal
Your partner purposely spreads rumors about you before an important event to damage your reputation. What unhealthy sign is this?
Sabotage
Your partner keeps pressuring you after you've said no. Name one way to respond and one person you could turn to for support if you need it
Restate your boundary, leave the situation if needed, or seek help from a trusted friend, family member or campus resource
Your friend tells you their partner is controlling who they see, checking their phone, and making them feel guilty. Name two unhealthy signs and one way you could support your friend.
Possible signs: possessiveness, isolation, manipulation, or guilting. Support them by listening without judgment, offering resources, and respecting their choices.