Definitions
What is it called when someone is manipulating you into doubting your reality?
Gaslighting
It’s okay if your partner compares you to their ex, as long as it’s positive.
False. Comparisons to an ex are rarely healthy.
Your partner frequently brings up their ex in conversations.
Yes! This could mean they aren’t over their past relationship.
What are two reasons why people ignore red flags in a relationship?
- Fear of being alone
- Lack of awareness (due to it being their first relationship, etc.)
(Answers may vary)
It's an issue in a relationship when there's a severe lack of _________.
Trust
What is showering someone with gifts, affection, and attention early on to gain their trust called?
Love-bombing
Jealousy is a natural part of any relationship.
True. However, excessive jealousy can be a red flag.
Your partner gets upset when you spend time with friends without them.
Yes! This could indicate possessiveness or a lack of trust.
What should you do if you notice a red flag early in a relationship?
Gauge the situation and then address it directly and/or seek advice from trusted people
A friend sends you a link asking you to click on it. However they won't state what it's for or will give you an unusual response. This person has probably been ________
Hacked
What is it called when someone threatens to harm themself if you leave the relationship?
Emotional blackmail
It is healthy to fight often in a relationship as long as you make up afterward.
False. Frequent conflict can indicate deeper issues.
Your partner encourages you to pursue your hobbies and hang out with friends, even if they’re not involved.
No. This is a green flag since your partner is supporting your interests.
Red flag: They make everything about _____.
Themselves
What is a beige flag?
Neutral, quirky, or mildly odd things—not harmful but worth noting.
What is it called when someone is giving you just enough attention to keep you interested without committing?
Breadcrumbing
It is okay if your partner refuses to meet your friends and family.
False. A disinterest in your social connections can indicate disengagement or control.
Your partner needs to constantly be with you because you are their entire world.
Yes! This could be a sign of unhealthy dependence.
What percentage of people admit to ignoring early red flags in relationships?
70 percent of people have admitted to ignoring red flags in a past relationship.
What is a yellow flag?
Potential issues, not necessarily dealbreakers, but worth watching.
What is it called when someone is refusing to communicate or shutting down during conflicts?
Stonewalling
A good relationship should never involve disagreements or conflicts.
False. Disagreements are natural; it’s how you handle them that matters.
Your partner always insists on splitting the bill evenly, even if they ordered more expensive items.
No, unless it causes tension in the relationship; this could be personal preference.
Red Flag: You state a ____ and they constantly overstep or test it
Boundary
These people portray themselves as someone else online
Catfish