First Impressions
How long does it take to form a first impressions
7 - 30 seconds
Can small talk help you find common interests with others?
Yes.
What is an acquaintance?
Someone you know, but not very well. You may see them at school or in the classroom and make small talk, but you don't really hangout or have deeper conversations.
List some traits of a good friend
Honest, trustworthy, supportive, respectful, good listener, kind, etc.
What are the main things we are judge on during a first impression?
Body Language, appearance, cleanliness
The weather, weekend plans, hobbies/interests,
A friend is someone you share common interests with and enjoy spending time together. A best friend is someone you trust more than others and the relationship is typically longer lasting. Best friends usually know a lot about each other.
Give an example of one trait you have that makes you a good friend
Answers will vary
Role play introducing yourself
Open body language, tall posture - "Hi, I'm (insert name), nice to meet you"
List some topics for small talk that are NOT appropriate
Religion, politics, personal questions, heavy topics that may offend others
What is a toxic friend?
Someone that acts like your friend, but doesn't have your best interests in mind. They are often passive-aggressive and they may put you down.
How can you appear trustworthy to your peers?
Don't gossip, respect boundaries and privacy of others, do not tell others when someone confides in you (exception to this rule is if the secret told is something that puts someones safety at risk) etc.
Does tone of voice matter for a first impression?
Yes.
Georg and Stan are sitting in the lunchroom together on a Friday, it is raining outside. Give an example of small talk that could be done in this situation
Anthony and Chad have gone to the same school for the last 2 years. They have many classes together and see each other everyday. On occasion, they make small talk. They do not hangout at recess and do not share common interests. Are they acquaintance, friends or best friends?
They are acquaintances
How can you show support to a friend who is struggling with mental health challenges, or having a hard time with a particular event?
You can check on them regularly, ask how they are doing. Try to make them laugh or do something nice for them. Remind them that you are here if they need you.