Pop Culture
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
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Healthy: enthusiastic, communication, body language, etc.
What is the relationship spectrum?
All relationships are different, but they all generally fall on a spectrum from healthy to unhealthy to abusive.
What are 2 examples of a digital boundary?
Password sharing, posting habits, sexting, etc.
Your best friend has been getting jealous about you meeting new friends, what kind of relationship is this?
Unhealthy
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
Unhealthy: volatility, aggression, jealousy, destroying property/throwing things, etc.
Name 2 characteristics of a healthy relationship.
Comfortable Pace / Communication / Healthy conflict / Trust / Independence / Respectful / Kindness / Fun!
What is a resource that you could tell a friend about if they are in an abusive relationship?
School counselor, local agencies (Response, River Bridge, etc.), national helplines.
What is one way that you can support a friend who is in an unhealthy or abusive relationship?
Multiple answers: listen to them, believe them, don't judge them, help them find resources, help them figure out next steps, etc.
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
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Unhealthy: pressure, threat, manipulation, not taking "no" for an answer, etc.
What are 3 differences between a healthy and unhealthy relationship?
Comfortable Pace / Intensity
Communication / Breaks in communication
Trust / No trust
Respect / Not respectful
Independence / Only spend time together
Healthy conflict / Jealousy or Manipulation
What are 2 examples of an emotional boundary?
Saying "I love you", fighting ground rules, identity outside the relationship, can say no, comfortable communicating discomfort, etc.
What are 3 examples of rules you could communicate with someone about "fair fighting"?
No name calling, no swearing, no physical contact, space, volume, etc.
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
Unhealthy: gaslighting, unclear communication about expectations, role expectations, etc.
What does "healthy conflict" look like?
Fair fighting "rules", able to communicate / stand up for self / accountability / apologizing
What are 3 signs that your friend could potentially be in an unhealthy or abusive relationship? How would you tell?
Isolation, physical injuries, defensiveness, fear, withdrawn, unhappy, etc.
Someone you ended a relationship with has been texting and calling constantly, leaving gifts for you, showing up uninvited. What is this an example of?
Stalking