Trust/Respect
“Showing regard and appreciation for the worth of someone or something.”
What is respect?
are a set of skills designed to help someone avoid participating in high-risk behaviors
What are refusal skills
Express your needs in a calm way, explaining clearly what you need without being aggressive. Avoid losing your temper — take a deep breath, count to 10 and calm down.
What are some tips you could give someone trying to resolve conflict if they are angry?
self-disclosure,listening, feedback
What is three characteristics of good communication
possession of control, authority, or influence over others
What is power
Being dependable and supportive, listening, not talking behind their back, not sharing what someone tells you with others (where appropriate)
How might you earn someones trust?
discussion aimed at reaching an agreement.
What is negotiation
not addressing the conflict; neglecting own needs and needs of others; no one wins
What is avoiding
Personal self-esteem and self worth is heightened, Communication, Honesty and openness
What is qualities of a healthy relationship
Both...
Is power good or bad?
Listen, keep unkind thought to yourself, be fair, not interrupting, sharing, proper tone, accept differences, show kindness
What are some characteristics of respect
TALKING. Relating to or in the form of words.
What does 'verbal' mean?
Talk about the situation when there are differences. Listen to each other’s needs and try to compromise so you both feel your needs are being met.
How might you OVERCOME conflict with someone?
Hewan's boyfriend is always telling her where she can and cannot go, who she can hangout with, and who she can talk to. He tells her he is doing this because he cares about her and does not want anything bad to happen to her. Is this a healthy or unhealthy relationship?
What is unhealthy relationship
What is an example of a good use of power?
Parents, elders, teachers, coaches etc. using their power to help young people
“Belief that someone or something is reliable, good, honest, effective, etc.”
What is trust
Talking, body language, listening, writing, reading
What are 3 different ways of communicating?
satisfying some of the needs of each
what is compromising
When people do not respect the rights of others or themselves
What is abuse of power
What could be the effect on people if they frequently experience situations where power is abused?
Listening, not judging, looking at them while they talk, acknowledge what they are saying, body language
Name an example of how you might show RESPECT in a conversation with someone
the action of working with someone to produce or create something.
What is collaboration
a win-win way of dealing with conflicts; fully satisfying own concerns as well as concerns of others
What is collaborating
Lying, making all the decisions, telling you what to wear/not to wear, telling you what to do/not to do, pressure to do things you don't want to (the coin scenario/tea cup video)
What are examples of an unhealthy or abusive relationship?
extreme jealousy, controlling behavior, verbal abuse, threats of violence
What are warning signs of abusive relationships