Relationships
What can friends provide in a relationship?
Emotional Support
Models for Imitation
Opportunities to practice roles
What is Stage 1 and describe?
Self-Love
A person’s first love is love of self
Describe Words of Affirmation
You need to hear you are loved
What are the purposes of dating?
Socialization
Recreation
Mate selection
Name the types of Teen Dating Violence.
Physical
Emotional
Sexual
Stalking
What are the stages of the love ladder?
Stage One: Love of Self
Stage Two: Love of Caregiver
Stage Three: Love of Peers
Stage Four: Hero Worship
Stage Five: Love of opposite/same gender
Stage Six: Mature Love
What is Stage 2 and describe?
Love of caregiver
As babies are cared for and loved, they gradually gain trust and love for their caregivers
Describe quality time
You need time and attention to know that you are loved.
What influences when you should date?
Family rules
Cultural beliefs
Customs
Maturity level
Age
Risk Factors for teen dating violence
Examples:
Poor communication/ social skills
Inability to manage anger
Belief in traditional gender roles
Association with friends who perpetrate dating violence
Being a witness to family violence
Exposure to community violence
Acceptance of the use of dating violence
Use of alcohol and/or drugs
Low self esteem
Describe a healthy relationship
Open, honest communication
Respect for each other
Compromise
Support
Respect of privacy
What is Stage 3 and describe?
Love of peers
As children interact with peers, they become attached to their playmates
Describe receiving gifts
You need tangible evidence to know you are loved.
What are the stages of dating?
Infatuation
Playing Games
Goal Directed
Rape affects victims physically, emotionally, socially
(T/F)
TRUE
What are the types of healthy boundaries?
Emotional boundaries
Physical boundaries
Digital boundaries
What is stage 4 and describe?
Hero worship
As children grow older, they develop a loving admiration for an older person
Describe Acts of Services
You need to be shown through tasks that you are loved
Name your non-negotiables in dating
Answer will vary
Describe the mothers relationship with her boyfriend
Toxic, unhealthy
Describe a unhealthy relationship
Possessiveness, insults, jealous accusations, yelling, humiliation, pulling hair, pushing or other abusive behaviors are --- at their root--- exertions of power and control
What is stage 5 and describe?
Love of opposite and same gender
Romantic interest in opposite/ same gender
Describe Physical Touch
You need physical contact to feel loved
What are 5 healthy things that you bring to a relationship?
What is one toxic trait you have?
answer varies
Essay Question
Put yourself in Stacey's shoes. What would you have done differently?