Red or Green flag?
Communication
Safety
Boundaries
Random
100

Wants to spend time with you every day, all the time, and gets mad at you when you spend time with other people.

Red flag. It is important to make sure you have alone time as well as time for other relationships.

100

Describe empathy.

What is understanding how a person might be feeling in a particular situation (putting yourself in someone else's shoes).

100

True or false: Only romantic relationships can be unhealthy

False. Any type of relationship has the potential to be unhealthy. 

100

True or false: Boundaries are selfish

FALSE. Boundaries are essential to healthy relationships. 
100

What tree do acorns come from?

What is oak trees

200

Encourages you to do things that make you happy

Green flag. Healthy Partners (or friends) encourage us to be the best version of ourselves.

200

True or false: if a conversation is getting heated, it is unhealthy to come back to the topic at a different time rather than resolving it in the moment.

False. As long as you agree to come back to the conversation, it is okay to take a break to cool-down when needed

200

This type of relationship is based on a "power and control" dynamic

What is an abusive relationship?

200

Types of boundaries

Physical, Mental, Emotional, Material

200

What is heavier, a pound of bricks or a pound of feathers?

What is they are both the same weight

300

Getting really jealous when you talk to other people.

Red flag.

300

Describe what a compromise is.

What is when two people are able to meet in the middle

300

True or false: If you are in an abusive relationship, it's probably your fault.

FALSE! Abusive partners actively make a choice to engage in abusive behavior, it is NEVER the survivor's fault. 

300

How do boundaries help us?

They set limits for what is acceptable/unacceptable to us, they dictate how we allow ourselves to be treated and how we treat others, they help us to have honest and open communication
300

Which has more sugar, a lemon or strawberry?

What is a lemon

400

Willing to talk through/solve problems

Green flag

400

Letting someone know how you feel without blaming or criticizing them

What is an I-statement?


**Bonus points: give an example of an I-statement**

400

True or false: Abusive relationships are only physical.

FALSE. Abuse can also be psychological, financial, and/or verbal. 

400

True or false: If enforcing a boundary upsets someone, you probably asked for too much. 

FALSE. It is common for people to be reactive when we enforce boundaries because it usually means they are losing something. 

400

What was the original purpose of the tiny pockets on jeans?

What is to store pocket watches

500

Calling or texting you all the time and getting upset anytime you don't answer, even if you have a valid reason.

Red flag

500

True or false: Relationships should be easy and if it isn't, it's probably not worth it. 

False. Most relationships require problem-solving work. Two individuals coming together are bound to have clashing ideas but what matters is how that conflict is handled. 

500

Who can you go to if you are concerned about your safety in a relationship?

A trusted friend, adult, therapist, the domestic violence hotline

NJ DV HOTLINE: 1-800-572-SAFE (7233)

National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline: 1-866-331-9474

500

True or false: Romantic partners don't need to ask for consent

FALSE. A romantic relationship does not exclude anyone from needing to ask for your consent.

500

True or False: Babies have knee caps.

False. Knee caps begin to form between ages 2 to 6 years old, fully developing between ages 10 to 12.

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