Getting to Know Someone
What is one thing you might ask someone when you first meet them?
“What’s your favorite hobby?” or “What do you like to do on weekends?”
Your partner/friend gets angry when you talk to your family. What type of relationship is this?
Unhealthy Relationship
Is conflict the same thing as fighting?
No
What does “respecting someone’s space” mean?
Giving them room, not interrupting, asking before touching their things.
What is one thing friends or coworkers do to stay connected?
Send a message, ask how their day was, make plans together.
Why is it helpful to ask follow-up questions when getting to know someone?
It shows you are listening and helps keep the conversation going.
Your partner/friend encourages you to pursue your dreams. What type of relationship is this?
Healthy Relationship
What is one unhealthy way to engage in conflict?
Yelling, shouting, blaming, or hitting
How can you show respect when someone is talking?
Look at them, listen, don’t interrupt, nod to show you understand.
Why is it good to have both shared interests and different interests in a friendship?
Shared interests help you bond; different interests help you learn and grow.
Name two things you can share about yourself to help build a new friendship.
Example: “I like playing basketball” and “I have a dog at home.”
Your partner/friend supports your interests and passions by attending events that you are involved in (ex: musical concerts, sporting events, or community service events). What kind of relationship is this?
Healthy Relationship
What is one way you can avoid making your partner/friend defensive when talking about a difficult issue?
Use "I" statements, talk about your own feelings, try to understand where the other person is coming from, avoid accusing the other person
If a friend says “I’d rather not talk about that topic,” what should you do?
Change the topic, respect their choice, and maybe ask a different question.
How can you show appreciation to someone at work or in the community relationship?
Say “thank you,” compliment them, help them, notice when they do a good job.
If someone you just met seems shy or quiet, what could you do to help them join the conversation?
Invite them to share, ask them a simple question, or include them in your group activity.
Your partner/friend makes you feel like every problem in your relationship is always your fault. What type of relationship is this?
Unhealthy Relationship
What are some things that can turn a conflict into a fight?
Making threats, giving ultimatums (ex: Do this, or else!), accusing without listening, not being willing to apologize or take the blame, getting physical with your partner/friend
Why is it important to know the difference between a good joke and one that might hurt someone?
Because jokes that hurt can damage trust and the relationship.
Why is it important to have boundaries (personal limits) even in healthy relationships?
Boundaries protect your well-being, help you stay safe and respectful, and keep relationships healthy.