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"What matters most is what lasts the longest"
Prophet, M. Russell Ballard
Word for "a serious disagreement or argument"
Conflict
How should one listen to resolve contention?
Listen to understand
Step 1
State positions: state position and how they would ideally resolve the issue without fear of retribution
In the city of Iga, Japan (of which the annual ninja festival is hosted), ninjas can expect an annual salary of $85,000. They suffered from a ninja shortage in 2018.
Prophet, Jeffrey R. Holland
Unresolved conflict can...
What are the benefits of refusing to argue with children?
Contention becomes short-lived, clear communication, pre-agreed upon consequences
Step 2
Explore Underlying Concerns- explore positions in greater depths, examining concerns that underlie their positions
Do grapes light on fire in the microwave?
Yes. Loose electrons and ions cluster to form plasma when the grapes get hot.
"Family is the most important thing in the world"
Public figure, Princess Diana of Whales (British Royal family)
Who is the father of contention? Provide a scriptural reference to support.
The devil
“He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another. “Behold, . . . this is my doctrine, that such things should be done away” (3 Nephi 11:29–30).
True or False: Sending children outside until they resolve their conflict teaches them to solve problems effectively
False. This can lead to bullying when a stronger child can push around emotionally or physically the smaller one.
Step 3
Brainstorm Possible Solutions- Each person suggests solutions without being attacked or ridiculed and how they can contribute to the total plan of action. All should be written down.
Is Santa Claus a pilot?
Santa Claus was given a pilot's license from the Assistant Secretary of Commerce for Aeronautics in 1927
"A child needs your love most when he deserves it least"
Public figure, Erma Bombeck (comedian and writer)
What is one of Satan's favorite targets?
The familiy
"Do I need to turn this car around?" is a suggested tactic to encourage children to resolve their problems.
Yes, "they can settle the argument or they will be taken home"
Step 4
Select a Solution- evaluate each suggestion and create a plan that will be responsive to the concerns of everyone
If two mind readers are reading each other's mind, who's mind are they actually reading?
If two mind readers are reading each other's mind they can read the same thing.
"Family is not an important thing. It's everything"
Public figure, Michael J. Fox (actor)
Who are the three parties involved in resolving a conflict (3 Nephi 12:23-24)
The repentant, the brother, and the Lord.
Name five Christlike attributes that are useful in conflict resolution.
1,2,3,4,5
Step 5
Carry Out the Solution- As family members carry out the solution they evaluate where modifications are needed. They may need to find a different solution.
How big is the smallest guitar on earth?
Cornell University a "nanoguitar" that was 100 atoms wide (50 nanometers) out of crystalline silicon