Respect 101
School Situations
Friends & Community
Say or Do?
(Respectful words, respectful actions, or both?)
What Would You Do?
100

What does it mean to respect yourself?

Taking care of yourself, being kind to yourself, being honest, setting boundaries, making good choices, etc.

100

What should you do if someone is sharing an answer during class and you have something to say?

Wait your turn and raise your hand to share.
100
What should you do if you hurt your friend's feelings?

Say sorry and try to fix it.

100

Someone trips and drops their books.

Both!

Respectful words: Are you okay?

Respectful action: Help them

100

A classmate cuts in line in front of you. What do you do?

Kindly and calmly tell them or let an adult know.
200

How can you show respect during a conversation?

Listen, make eye contact, and wait your turn to speak.

200

How can you show respect during group work?

Listen to others' ideas, take turns, and be open to different opinions.

200

Your friend is upset and needs space. What's a respectful choice?

Give them space and check in later to see how they're doing.

200

Your friend is upset and wants to be alone.

Respectful action: Give them space.

200

Your friends are making fun of someone's clothes. What do you do?

Don't join in, speak up if you're comfortable, change the subject, tell an adult.

300

Name 3 traits of a respectful person.

Kind, honest, responsible, patient, fair, polite, etc.

300

A classmate is struggling with a problem. How can you respond respectfully?

Offer help or encourage them by saying something positive.
300

You're frustrated with someone. How do you respond respectfully?

Take space or a break if needed, avoid yelling, respectfully talk about your feelings.

300

You want to borrow something.

Respectful words: Ask politely.

300

Your friend is left out of a group activity. What can you do?

Invite them in or make sure they know they're welcome to join.

400

How can respect help build strong friendships?

It builds trust, shows care, and helps solve problems kindly.

400

You see someone being bullied. How can you show respect?

Stand up for them and tell an adult.

400

You and a friend want to do different things. What's a respectful solution?

Take turns or find a way to compromise.

400

Your teammate made a mistake and feels embarrassed.

Both: Encourage them and show support! (Thumbs up, clap, etc.)

400

Your teacher gave you feedback you didn't like. How can you respond?

Say "thank you," and try to understand how it can help you improve.

500

What's one way to show respect in a disagreement?

Stay calm, listen to the other person, and respond kindly.

500

A classmate keeps interrupting you during group work. What do you do?

Ask them to please let you finish, and set a respectful tone for the group.

500

Your friend makes a mistake in front of others. How do you support them?

 Be kind, remind them everyone makes mistakes, and stand by them.

500

You're frustrated because someone bumped into you by accident. The other person apologizes after bumping into you. What do you do?

Respectful words: Respond kindly (ex. "It's okay! Thank you for apologizing."

Respectful action: Take a breath

500

You made a mistake in front of the class and feel embarrassed. What's a respectful way to handle it?

Take a deep breath

Learn from it

Remind yourself it happens to everyone

Be kind to yourself

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