RESPECT 101
These two simple phrases should always be used when asking for something or when someone hands you an item.
What are "please" and "thank you?"
Having self-respect means being comfortable saying this simple, one-syllable word when someone asks you to do something that violates your values.
What is no?
This ancient universal rule states that you should treat other people exactly how you want to be treated.
What is the Golden Rule?
If a peer or teacher is presenting at the front of the room, you should show respect by keeping your mouth closed and doing this with your eyes.
What is eye contact?
If you want to enter a sibling’s or parent's bedroom and the door is closed, you should always do this first.
What is knock?
If you arrive late to class, you should enter the room in this manner so you don't disrupt the students who are already working.
What is quietly?
This psychological term refers to how much you value, respect, and feel confident about yourself.
What is self-esteem?
This term refers to repeating rumors or talking about someone's private business behind their back, which seriously breaks down trust.
What is gossiping?
Instead of blurting out an answer or interrupting a teacher who is speaking, a middle school student should use this common physical gesture.
What is raise your hand?
Borrowing an item from a sibling's room, like a hoodie, a game, or a charger, without doing this first is a major violation of respect.
What is asking for permission?
This non-verbal cue, such as crossing your arms tightly or glaring, can communicate disrespect without you saying a single word.
What is body language?
This physical reaction, such as walking away, taking a deep breath, or counting to ten, shows respect for yourself and others when a conversation gets too heated.
What is taking a time out?
When you realize you were wrong or hurt someone's feelings during an argument, a respectful person offers a sincere one of these.
What is an apology?
According to NH law, this piece of technology should be put away and silenced during class time to show respect for the learning environment.
What is a cell phone?
When a parent asks you to do a chore like taking out the trash or unloading the dishwasher, a respectful person does it the first time without doing this back.
What is talking back?
Holding the door open for someone walking in behind you is a classic example of this respectful trait.
What is courtesy or politeness?
When you say "No" to a request because you are already overwhelmed or because it compromises your values, you are setting these healthy parameters.
What are boundaries?
Using digital tools, text messages, or social media apps to intentionally torment, threaten, or humiliate a peer is known by this term.
What is cyberbullying?
When your sports team loses a game, you show respect to the opposing team by shaking hands and avoiding this poor behavioral trait.
What is being a sore loser or poor sportsmanship?
To show self-respect and respect for your home, you should keep your personal bedroom reasonably clean so it doesn't attract these unwanted pests.
What are bugs?
This phrase refers to the permanent trail of data, photos, and comments you leave behind on the internet, which you should respect to protect your own future.
What is a digital footprint?
Having self-respect doesn't mean you never make mistakes; instead, it means you do this when things go wrong rather than blaming everyone else.
What is take responsibility?
Respecting school property means avoiding this illegal act, which involves damaging or defacing walls, desks, or bathrooms.
What is grafitti or vandalism?
Copying a classmate's homework or looking at their test answers is a major sign of disrespect known academically by this term.
What is cheating?
This six-letter word describes a mutual agreement where family members resolve a disagreement, ensuring everyone's feelings are respected. Sometimes, you have to give up something you want.
What is a compromise?