Respect & Responsibility
The definition of Respect as we've defined it in this class
What is...Treating others as I would want to be treated myself?
Bullying can be defined with the acronym "BOO", which means this
What is...
Being mean
On purpose
Over and over
Manners are how we are _________ to behave in the world, regardless of our environment or who we are with.
What is...expected (accept "supposed")
Before we do or say something, we need to use our social _______ which sorts thoughts into things that we should do or say and things that should stay in our head or that we shouldn't do.
Hint: This one isn't for spaghetti!
What is... filter?
Proverbs 16:18 says that ______ goes before destruction, and an arrogant spirit before a fall.
What is...Pride?
The definition of Responsibility as we've defined it in this class
What is...Doing what I'm supposed to do when I'm supposed to do it OR Doing the right thing at the right time?
This form of bullying is the least common because it is the most noticeable, and some examples of it can include pushing, kicking, shoving, hitting, tripping, and even stealing or damaging other people's things
What is...Physical Bullying?
What is...
Looking people in their eyes and turning your body in their direction
Ask questions about them and not just talk about yourself the whole time
Allow them time to talk and be a good listener; don't hog the conversation
Don't interrupt them when they're speaking
We should _ _ _ _ and _ _ _ _ _ before we act.
The first of these things involves calming our bodies, counting to 10, taking slow and deep breaths, and taking a break if we need one.
The second thing involves asking ourselves questions like:
What is the problem? What are the options? How could I handle this differently?
What is... Stop and Think?
Pride is when we consider ourselves as most important in life, and what we want, need, and think matters more than anybody else, including God.
Pride says "I know better than you, God"
What is an example of prideful behavior?
What is...
Showing off/Bragging
Making ourselves the center of attention
Being overly critical of people too often
Thinking that you deserve better
The Bible verse that we use to give us our definition of Respect
What is...Matthew 7:12?
This form of bullying is the most common because it's quick and easy to do, hard for adults to see, and can easily be lied about. Some examples of it may include cruel teasing, name-calling, mean jokes, and gossip or rumors.
What is...Verbal Bullying?
This would be a good manner to practice in the cafeteria or at the dinner table
What is...
Don't talk with your mouth full of food, finish chewing and swallow your food before speaking
Don't touch anybody else's food unless they're clearly sharing something with you
Keep your elbows off the table
Keep your area clean and don't make a mess with your food
Although we can only control our own actions and cannot control the actions of others, in this way we are responsible to help someone make the right choice.
What is...
It is our responsibility to NOT pressure, encourage, or "egg-on" someone to do something you both know is wrong, dangerous, or inappropriate.
Instead we should encourage them to do something else that is safe and appropriate.
In contrast to pride, Proverbs 22:4 says that
"__________ is the fear of the LORD; its wages are riches and honor and life."
What is...humility?
Give one example of the outcomes of being responsible
What is...
People can trust you to do what you'll say you'll do OR You get positive results and avoid negative consequences OR Helps people live together safely and with cooperation
This form of bullying includes actions such as leaving someone out on purpose/excluding someone, telling lies about someone to others, and embarrassing someone in front of other people
What is...Social/Emotional Bullying?
True friends NEVER pressure each other to do what is...
What is...Dangerous, Inappropriate, or Wrong?
If the answer to any of these three questions is YES, you should NOT do that thing or change your action.
What is...
Could I get hurt?
Could someone else get hurt?
Would it make my Mama mad? (or teacher and especially God)
The famous author C.S. Lewis said this about humility:
"Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but rather thinking about yourself less".
Name a practical way to demonstrate humility here at school.
What is...accept any answer that demonstrates humility in the school setting.
One of the easiest and best ways that we can show respect to others is by using this
What is...Good Manners?
Name a reason why people bully others.
What is...
An insecurity of their own that they are embarrassed about
A lack of power and or control at home or in their life somewhere
To try to bring someone else down to their level of sadness and embarrassment so that they're not alone
True friends ONLY pressure one another to do what is...
What is...Good, Godly, and Right?
Before I SAY anything, I should make sure what I'm about to say meets ALL the criteria of the THINK acronym which means this.
What is...Is what I'm about to say:
True?
Helpful?
Inspiring?
Necessary?
Kind?
The verse in Philippians 2:5-8 show us that ______ was the ultimate example of what it means to be humble.
Who is...Jesus?