Empathy
You are playing soccer. Another player falls down. What is a good choice?
Check and see that they're okay
You are playing tag and someone says they weren't tagged, but several players saw it happen. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stay calm and talk about what happened.
A player on the other team says the ball was out, but you think it stayed in. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stay calm and talk about it respectfully.
Your teammate keeps blaming others when the team makes mistakes. What is the best choice?
Encourage positive teamwork and focus on the game.
A classmate keeps interrupting you when you are talking. What is the best choice?
Answer: Tell them calmly how you feel.
Your group chooses a different idea than yours for a project. What is the best choice?
Answer: Respectfully support the group and share ideas kindly.
The game has already started and someone wants to join. Some players say no. What is the best choice?
Answer: Try to find a fair way to include them.
Your friend got into an argument with someone they care about.
“That’s drama. Just ignore them.”
“Arguments with people you care about can feel really upsetting. I ignore people that do that”
“Arguments with people you care about can feel really upsetting. I ignore people that do that”
You see a player cheat to help your team win. What is the best choice and why?
Be honest and encourage fair play because when people cheat, the game isn't fun and it makes people mad a tthe cheater
Your best friend is cheating in a game and asks you not to tell anyone. What is the best choice?
Answer: Be honest and encourage your friend to play fairly.
You feel frustrated because someone is not doing their part in a group activity. What is the best choice?
Answer: Talk respectfully with them or ask an adult for help.
A friend wants to make up a new rule in the middle of the game. Some people like it and some don't. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stop and let everyone discuss and agree on the rule.
You and your friend are playing a game. Your friend breaks a rule, but nobody else notices. If you say something, your friend might get upset with you. What is the best choice?
Answer: Be honest and respectful. You can remind your friend about the rule privately or encourage them to make the right choice.
Another player accidentally bumps you hard and you feel angry because they never look where they are going. What is the best choice?
Take a breath and find out if it was an accident before reacting.
A group changes the rules after the game is over because they want a different winner. What is the best choice?
Answer: Remind everyone that rules should be agreed on before the game starts.
In soccer, someone trips you while trying to take the ball from you during a game. What should you do?
Answer: Use respectful words to solve the problem.
Say, please don't stick your legs in between my legs when taking away the ball.
Tell the teacher if it happens again or if you were injured.
Someone pushes ahead of you to get to the front of the line for a game. What is the best choice?
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Answer: Use respectful words and tell an adult if needed
You accidentally spill water on a classmate's work. What is the best choice?
Answer: Apologize and help fix the problem.
A player keeps changing the rules so their team can win. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stop and calmly discuss the rules with everyone.
Someone accidentally hurts you but laughs afterward. You are not sure if it was an accident. What is the best choice?
Answer: Tell them how you feel and ask for help if needed
You think someone cheated and it caused your team to lose. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stay calm, talk about it respectfully, and accept help from an adult if needed
Two students are arguing about who won. Voices are getting louder. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stay calm and help find a fair solution.
“Well, accidents happen.”
Someone says something rude to you when you're already having a hard day. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stay calm with belly breathing and tell a trusted adult if needed.
Everyone is blaming one student for losing, and you know it wasn't only their fault. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stand up for fairness and remind others that everyone is part of the team.
Two friends want you to take sides in an argument. What is the best choice?
Answer: Stay respectful and help them solve the problem fairly.