What is Responsibility
Responsibility Means (name at least 1)
Accepting your obligations
Doing the right thing as the situation calls for it
Accepting accountability for your actions
What does it mean to make friends with your mistakes
Don't be afraid to admit you're wrong, apologize if necessary and when possible make amends
You forget to do your homework
Admit the truth to the teacher and ask if you can still turn it in
What is a polite request
Just ask politely for another person to change their behavior
What is a natural consequences
The results that occur from a person's behavior without any interference by another person
What does it mean to accept your obligations
Fulfilling our responsibilities even when we don't want to or it's hard
What does it mean when someone says don't kick yourself when your down
Don't punish yourself for mistakes
What polite request would you give to someone that is kicking your seat in class
Could you please stop kicking my chair. I'd really appreciate it
When should natural consequences not be used
1)When the situation is too dangerous
2)When the consequence is too far in the future
When the consequence affects someone else more than it affects you
What does it mean to do the right thing as the situation calls for it
Each situation may be different and you have to determine right from wrong
What is active remorse
you feel bad for what you've done but rather than lingering regretfully on your mistakes you accept the consequences learn what they have to teach and resolve not to repeat the mistake
Your forget to complete your chores at home
Apologize, try to do better going forward and complete your chores
What is an "I" message
Firm friendly communication that come after the polite request. Starts with I and tells the person how you feel
What are logical consequences
Discipline that is logically connected to a misbehavior and is applied by an authority figure to influence someone to behave within the limits of a situation
What does it mean to accept accountability for your actions
Accepting that what happens to you results from decisions you make
True or False
Sometimes you have to do things in life you don't want to do
True
You have an argument with a friend and say mean things
apologize and attempt to discuss the situation calmly
How to you state an "I" message (must name 2 our of 4 steps)
1)Name the behavior or situation you want changed
2)Say how you feel
3)State your reason
4)Say what you want done
Is this a logical or natural consequence
You're cold because you forget to bring your coat when you leave the house
Natural
What does R = C + C Mean
Responsibility = Choice + Consequences
How can an apology help change a situation
it reduces anger on both sides and frees you up to learn from your mistakes
You miss your curfew
Apologize and accept the consequences given by your parent
What is a firm reminder
Firmly remind the person if the behavor is still not changed
Logical or Natural consequence
You run out of gas
Natural