Internet Safety
True or False: It is okay to share your full name, telephone, and address with someone you have talked to before online.
False. You should never share any personal information online because you are not sure if the person online is telling the truth on who they say they are.
True or False: It is important to start early setting healthy boundaries in relationships.
True: better to form healthy habits early
True or False: Only talking about yourself on a date is a good idea.
False: it is important to ask people questions and learn what they are interested in.
True or False: It is okay to send a lot of texts to someone if you are upset with them.
False: You should not send a lot of text to someone no matter how you are feeling.
True or False: setting healthy boundaries is not a good idea.
False: in order to have healthy relationship you need to be able to set clear boundaries.
You never know who they actually are. They may say they are someone but they are lying to get close to you.
Why is setting boundaries hard?
It can be uncomfortable and it can be hard to tell someone something that you like or want to impress.
Posting pictures of someone without their permission is a good idea. Yes or no?
No, it is not a good idea. It is important to ask for permission before posting others online.
What are some places online that you can connect with other people?
Tik tok, facebook, instagram, snapchat
Provide an example of how to set a healthy boundary.
I really like to receive flowers on my birthday. I would like for you to buy me flowers on special occasions.
Who are some people you can tell if something is happening online that is making you uncomfortable?
a parent, a trusted adult, teacher
What does a healthy boundary mean?
Being clear about what you are comfortable with and what you are uncomfortable with.
What does it mean to be co-dependent?
It means you can't do anything alone and you always need another person to do everything with you.
Never meet anyone that you haven't met in person. If you are confused on what to do, tell a trusted adult.
Someone online asks you for money. What should you do?
Never give any money to anyone online that you don't know. You never know what they are actually using that money for.
What are somethings that would be unsafe to do online?
share personal information, meet someone you don't know, send money, not telling someone when you feel uncomfortable
Self awareness and good communication
How much should each person contribute to a relationship?
It should be equal
How can you create a comfortable space for people when you are interacting with them online?
Making sure you are moving at a pace that they are comfortable with
What are somethings we can do to stay safe online?
SMART
What does SMART stand for?
S: Keep safe
M: Don't meet
A: never accept
R: ask is it reliable
T: Always Tell
When you are setting healthy boundaries, what can of statements should you use? You can provide an example.
Use "I" statements. For example, I do not like when you text me super late at night.
what are some good qualities to have to be a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
be respectful, kind, a good listener, good communicator.
What are some unhealthy signs of digital relationships online?
Over commenting, texting, asking to meet over and over again, and making someone feel gulity
How can you show respect online?
Checking in with the person and making sure your actions make them feel comfortable and they feel heard.