Trusting
These things are used in sessions to build trust
Activities
The phrase that makes meaning for pain-based behaviors
Kids do their pain, not talk their pain
This is the primary task for this phase
Connecting youth with people they have loved and lost
These are emotions youth may experience
Excitement, sorrow, fear
The tool that assesses connections
Youth Connection Scale
By meeting youth needs, workers accomplish this
Replicating the attachment cycle
These are activities for healing identified in the healing guidebook
Life line, backpack of grief, story dice, body mapping
Sessions may feature these types of content
Healthy relationships, realistic expectations, boundaries
Things you can use to build youths confidence in this phase
Pull out old work to show growth, review successes, messaging indicating youth are ok without you
These are the 5 common trauma responses
Fight, flight, freeze, fawn and flock
This is the equation for trust
Trust equals consistency over time
The two worst things that can happen to any child
Death of a parent and loss of a parent
These types of safety are priority to assess when considering connections youth wants to have
Psychological and physical safety
This is a significant event that requires careful planning
Graduation
A concept that describes the process for restoring connection
Rupture and repair
These tasks indicate you are engaging in exhaustive family search
Mine the file, listen to youth, past CPS reports, court records, social media
These are the 3 distinct types of grief and loss
Disenfranchised, Ambiguous, Secondary,
For the worker, this is one important task to complete during this phase
Transferring the trust to their people
These are areas you're focusing on with youth and their supportive connections
Relational challenges
These are healing messages from caregivers
It's not your fault, you have the right to feel like this, I thought about you daily
These are the people you need to build trust with
Youth, Team, Family
These are the 3 tasks from the 3-5-7 model
Clarify, Integrate, Actualization
Dr. Bruce Perry says this phrase referring to relational healing and trauma
Trauma happens in the context of relationships and will heal in the context of relationships
This is the key question for youth in this phase
When will I know I belong
These are important data to capture
frequency of 15 minute meetings, YCS data, youth surveys