Movies
Rose & Jack (The Titanic)
Unhealthy.
(Codependent, she cheated, she was expected to marry for money, no one encouraged independence, etc.)
50/50 responsibility
Unrealistic.
(income isn't equal, providing care for children, gender norms, etc.)
vocalize comfort zones, boundaries, values, etc.
Romeo & Juliet
Unhealthy.
(They died for their significant others, they didn't listen to friends or family's advice, put other's safety at risk, arranged marriage from parents with the outcome of more money, etc.)
They will never notice anyone else.
Unrealistic.
We are all human, we will notice others along the way. You cant make someone stay if they have already decided to leave. Refuse to find comfort in other women's flaws, embrace your own qualities and appreciate the other girl's unique beauty!
Jaime & Landon (A Walk to Remember)
Healthy.
(Encouraged education, good family communication, complete goals together (bucket list), stuck through sickness & health, found new hobbies together, etc.)
They will always be romantic
What is True
Gatsby & Daisy (The Great Gatsby)
Unhealthy.
(She used him for status and money, he remained in the past and wouldn't move on, she cheated, she got married too young and regretted it, etc.)
There will be hard times.
Yes, its realistic.
Conflict shouldn't be avoided because this will cause a build up of negative emotions.
Figuring out communication styles is key!
Pam & Jim (The Office)
Healthy.
(Respected boundaries, encouraged personal hobbies, support emotionally & physically, friends before partners, faithfulness with distance, etc.)