Safe or Unsafe?
Fix the Action
Ask or Don’t Ask?
Body Boundaries
Replace It!
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Q: Giving a high-five after a game

A: “What is SAFE?”


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Q: A classmate is in your way. You push them.

A: “What is: Use words like ‘Excuse me’?”


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High-five

A: Don’t ask


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Q: What parts of the body are NEVER okay to hit, kick, or touch?

A: “What are: Private parts like bottom, chest, and groin?”


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Q: If I feel silly and want to roughhouse, what can I do instead?

A: “What is: Ask for a silly break or do a movement break?”


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200

Q: Slapping someone’s bottom during horseplay

A: “What is UNSAFE?”


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Q: You want to play around, so you slap a friend on the bottom.

A: “What is: Choose a playful but SAFE gesture like a high-five or fist bump?”


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Hug

A: Ask


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Q: What do we call the invisible bubble around someone’s body?

A: “What is personal space?”


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Q: If I want attention, what is a safe way to get it?

A: “What is: Use words like ‘Look!’ or ‘Watch me!’?”


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300

Q: Tapping a friend on the shoulder to say hi

A: “What is SAFE?”


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Q: You’re mad and want to kick someone.

A: “What is: Walk away and tell an adult?”


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Pat on the back

A: Ask


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Q: If someone says “stop,” what should you do?

A: “What is stop immediately?”


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Q: If I feel angry at someone, instead of kicking, I can…

A: “What is: Take a breath and talk to an adult?”


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400

Q: Threatening or pretending to kick someone in the groin


A: “What is UNSAFE?”


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Q: You poke someone in the ribs because you think it’s funny.

A: “What is: Ask if they want to play or keep hands to yourself?”


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Grabbing someone’s hoodie

A: Ask (and really should NOT do without permission)


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Q: Why is hitting or kicking someone’s groin dangerous?

A: “What is: It can cause serious injury and is never safe?”


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Q: If I’m bored and want to mess with someone, what can I use?

A: “What is: A fidget, stress ball, or a quiet activity?”


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500

Q: Helping someone pick up dropped supplies

A: “What is SAFE?”

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Q: You pretend to punch at someone’s groin to get a reaction.

A: “What is: Keep hands down and use words to talk about feelings?”

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Any touch near private body parts

A: Don’t do it at all
(Teachers can allow the answer: “You NEVER touch there.”)

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Q: When staff or classmates walk by, where should your hands be?

A: “What is: At my sides or doing something safe?”

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Q: If I want to connect with someone without touching them, what can I do?

A: “What is: Wave, give a peace sign, or say ‘Hey!’?”

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