Boundaries
Jayden's friend yells at him and calls him an idiot when he shows up late to hang out. What kind of boundary is he crossing?
Verbal
True or False:
"I" statements are a way of taking responsibility for our own feelings while describing a problem.
True
Your mom's friend tells you she's planning a surprise birthday party and asks you not to tell her.
Safe
You see a classmate touch another classmate on a private part of their body.
How do you know if a website is unsafe?
Asks for personal information
Has inappropriate images or content
Jenna has been asking her friend Mia to tell her about the trauma she experienced when she was younger, and Mia feels uncomfortable and has told her that. What boundary is she crossing?
Emotional
True or False: Is this the start of an I-statement?
"I feel worried when you tell me you'll call but you don't"
True
The person is sharing their feelings without shaming or blaming
Unsafe
Your friend tells you their coach puts his hand on her shoulder a lot, and she wants him to stop but feels awkward.
Encourage your friend to use assertive words "I don't like that, please stop" and tell another trusted adult if he doesn't listen.
You are on tiktok/instagram and come across inappropriate images of someone who looks like he is close to your age.
Immediately close the app
Tell an adult so the adult can report it
What are three types of boundaries?
Physical, verbal, emotional
True or False:
This is an I-statement- "I feel like you're being kind of stupid."
False
The person is not describing a feeling, and they are criticizing/using insulting language
Unsafe
Walk away
Call a parent
Someone in your school makes mean posts about you or someone you know online.
Ignore/block them
Tell a trusted adult
Do not comment back/retaliate
True or false: Physical boundaries involve the kind of touch we feel comfortable giving and receiving from others
True
Change this into an I-statement:
"You never call me. You must not care, I guess we won't talk anymore."
"I feel hurt when you go so long without calling. I'm afraid you don't care. Could you try to reach out more often?
You overhear your mom's friend telling her she's having a baby. She says she doesn't want many people to know yet.
Safe
A teacher gets angry and even threatens a certain student when she gets angry.
Go to a trusted adult at the school (principal, other teacher, counselor)
A person you play games with online asks you to send pictures of yourself.
Ignore them
Say no and log off
Tell an adult
Name a physical boundary you set for yourself with others.
Examples: Hugs, fist bumps, kisses, standing close
True or false: You express clear consent to do something by saying "ehhhhh, I guess I can do that..."
False
In the situation above, what would you do?
Tell an adult you trust as soon as you can
Teacher
Counselor
Parent
Aide
What are signs your body gives you when you feel uncomfortable?
Examples: sweating, shaking, upset stomach, nausea, dizzy
A website asks you to put in your name and birthday before you can go on.
Do not give them away.
Exit the site
Tell an adult