Behavior Flags
Your partner/friend doesn't respect your boundaries.
Red
What is the term for illegally following someone around and keeping tabs on them?
Stalking
Define personal boundaries.
The limits for what is ok or not ok for you. What you are comfortable with (or not).
True or False: On a typical day, there are approximately 1,000 phone calls placed to domestic violence hotlines nationwide.
False! There are over 20,000 phone calls, every day.
What is the name of the organization I work for?
Sojourner Project
Your partner/friend encourages you to be yourself.
Green
Name three examples of healthy behavior in a relationship.
Kindness, patience, respecting boundaries, spending time together, having independence still, respect, trust etc.
Name 4 different ways you could tell someone to stop what they are doing.
Stop, enough, no, back off, no thanks, leave me alone, etc.
Give 3 examples of how a person can control their partner using technology.
Demanding passwords, posting unwanted shown pictures, cyber bullying, cyber stalking, making them feel guilty when posting a picture, showing up where they are uninvited, extreme amounts of texts, demand nude photos
How long are elephants pregnant for:
A. 9 months.
B. 15 months
C. 22 months
D. 28 months
c. 22 months
Your partner/friend texts you 100 times a day.
Yellow
Name five examples of unhealthy behavior in a relationship
Disrespecting boundaries, coercion, not consensual, bad communication, verbal abuse, isolation etc.
Define the concept of a deal breaker in a relationship.
Something that someone does or doesn't do that would make it so that you would not want to be in a relationship with them.
True or false: Teens are legally eligible for a protective order if they are experiencing abuse from a dating partner.
True. They need an adult to vouch for them and the court decides if it will be granted but they can request one if needed.
Define hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia.
The fear of long words.
Your partner/friend acts super jealous when you hang out with other people.
Red
What should you NOT do when a friend is in an unhealthy relationship?
Threaten to end the friendship, speak badly about their partner, tell them to "just leave," confront their partner yourself
When can someone change their mind about being physically or sexually intimate?
Anytime!
Name 2 categories of the teen dating violence power & control wheel.
Verbal abuse, disrespect boundaries, using privilege, intimidation/threats, minimize/deny/blame, isolation/limit independence
Name 10 animated movies
Lion King, Little Mermaid, Princess and the Frog, Mulan, Ants, Finding Dory, Finding Nemo, Zootopia, Beauty and the Beast, Monsters Inc, Toy Story, Up, Cars, etc.
You and your friend/partner argue sometimes.
Green (could turn yellow/red depending on how you argue)
What is the name of the website for teens to learn about dating, relationships, and abuse?
Values show us what is important to us and help us make decisions. It is important to have some shared values with our partner and to know what our deal breakers are.
Mimi loves her boyfriend, but at the same time she is feeling confused. Mimi is confused because her boyfriend will not allow her to spend time with anyone but him. Mimi tells her friends that her boyfriend has a really bad temper and sometimes makes her afraid. He yelled at her today in the cafeteria because he didn’t like what she was wearing, saying that if she really cared about him, she would change her outfit. What abusive behaviors is her boyfriend displaying?
Isolation, disrespect boundaries, verbal abuse
How many hearts does an octopus have?
a. 2
b. 3
c. 5
d. 8
b. 3