Trauma Theory
S.E.L.F
Sanctuary Commitments
Sanctuary Definitions
Sanctuary Toolkit
100

Instead of saying, "What's wrong with you," we could say...

"What happened to you?"

100

Recognizing and handling feelings in non-harmful ways.

What is "Emotion Management?"

100

This Commitment means, "shared decision making, making sure that everyone has a voice, which is not the same as everyone having a vote."

What is "Democracy?"

100

This is when an external event overwhelms a personal internal resources and external supports for coping.

What is "Trauma?"

100

This is a tool that allows youth and staff to promote feeling identification, focus on the future, and connect to their community.

What is a "Community Meeting?"

200

This was the study used to learn about the effects of childhood experience over a person's whole lifespan.

What is the "ACEs Study?"

200

The kind of safety of being safe and free to behave in ways consistent with your conscience, beliefs and values.  

What is "moral/ethical safety?"

200

This Commitment means, "managing our feeling so that we don't hurt ourselves or others."

What is "Emotional Intelligence?"

200

This is the cumulative transformative effect on helpers of working with, living with, and spending time with survivors of traumatic life events.

What is "vicarious trauma?"

200

This is a tool that is a visual reminder of emotional management practices listed as activities, techniques or skills to be used in situations that may trigger challenging behaviors.  

What is a "Safety Plan?"

300

Adult experiences of alcoholism, substance abuse, and attempted suicide can be related to this.  

What is "adverse childhood experiences (abuse)?"

300

The kind of safety that include good health practices an an absence of substance abuse.

What is "physical safety?"

300

This Commitment means, "saying what we mean and not being mean when we say it."

What is "Open Communication?"

300

A cultural situation in which strong feelings get disconnected from their source and become attached to unrelated events or interactions.

What is a "collective disturbance?"

300
This is a practice of identifying and committing to practice a set of activities that one can do to manage stress. 

What is "Self Care Planning?"

400

Imprisoned family member, Parental separation/divorce and mental illnesses can be this kind of adverse childhood experience.

What are "household adversities?"

Or, "What is Vicarious Trauma?"

400

This includes choosing trajectories, choosing new attractors and making different choices.  

What is "future?"

400

This Commitment means, "respecting and sharing the ideas of our teams, learning from one another and sharing our knowledge."

What is "Social Learning?"

400

The situation where we are personally overwhelmed, and can disconnect from our thoughts and our feelings.

What is "disassociation?"  

400

This is a set of practical and simple interventions that reinforce the language and philosophical underpinnings of the Sanctuary Model.  

What is the "Sanctuary Toolkit?"

500

A list of activities that a person can choose when feeling overwhelmed so that they can avoid engaging in unsafe behavior.  

What is a "Safety Plan?"

500

This includes refraining from reenactment, moving on, and change.  

What is "Loss?"

500

This Commitment means, "creating hope for individuals we serve and for ourselves."

What is "Growth and Change?"

500

This model contains a "victim," a "persecutor" and a "rescuer."

What is "Karpman's Drama Triangle?"

500

A kind of team meeting that is in response to a problem, conflict or critical incident that requires a community-wide perspective. 

What is a "red flag meeting" or a "problem solving meeting?"

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