Denies vulnerability, critical, blaming, rigid, bullying
What is persecutor?
Empowered, motivated, able, engaged
What is creator?
These can be experienced or anticipated
What are losses?
These are affected by the parallel process
What are thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
Martyr, harried, guilt-trips, only I can help
What is rescuer?
Acknowledges vulnerability, respectful, accountable, fair, approachable
What is challenger?
A complex body and mind reaction to an event or situation. It includes a physical change (like a fast heartbeat), a personal feeling (like joy or fear), and an action (like smiling or running).
What are emotions?
Lack of basic safety/trust
Loss of emotional management
Problems with cognition
communication problems
Problems with authority
Confused sense of justice
What is trauma organized?
Helpless, overwhelmed, inadequate, entitled
What is victim?
Mentor, calm, self-aware, caring, respectful, encouraging,
What is coach?
Physical
Psychological
Social
Moral
What is Safety?
State of high alert
Inability to think clearly
extreme thoughts
Attention to threat
intense and prolonged anxiety
drive to act
What are the symptoms of parallel process?
Are we helping the person to change?
In what ways?
If not, are we reenacting something?
How do we change the outcome?
What is recognizing reenactment
MYSTERY TASK
Give an example of a challenger, coach, and creator
This includes possibilities, potential pathways, "baby steps", action plan
What is the future?
Safety skills
Emotional Management
Cognitive Skills
Communication Skills
Leadership Skills
Judgement Skills
Grieving and Imagination
What is trauma-informed response?
Think about the person's history and your own!
Consider the role you are playing
What is the expected response based on the script being replayed
Change the ending of the story!
What is rescripting?
MYSTERY TASK
Act out a challenger, coach, and creator
Assessment, Psychoeducation, Planning, Emergent Situations, Problem-solving, Evaluating progress, Managing change
What are the uses of S.E.L.F.?
Clients
Families
Staff
Organization
Society
Who is involved in the parallel process of recovery?