Size of the Problem
Not having a pencil is a ..... __________ problem
Small problem
True or False: When you are listening to someone, it's ok to talk
False. You cannot listen if you are talking to someone at the same time
Take turns
Share
Set a timer
Ask to use it when they are finished
Make a plan to use it one day and then the other person can have it the next day
Self Control or Not Showing Self Control: Someone is mad that they didn't get the partner they wanted, so they shout: "I'm not doing it!"
Not Showing Self Control: They said something without thinking about the other person. Part of having self control is managing big feelings AND remembering to be flexible
If someone said something unkind to you and hurt your feelings what can YOU do to solve the problem?
Medium problem
True or False: You can only listen with your ears.
False -- You can listen with your whole body.
When would it be ok to hit or hurt someone you are mad at?
Never!
Yes because you don't always get your way; and that's ok!
What is our school mascot?
Lion
If it is a small problem, you can ...
Complete the sentence: If you are doing what you are supposed to be doing you are....
2. ... following directions
3. ... showing Trojan Pride
4. ... being a first time listener
If you and a friend are having a conflict or a disagreement, what is the most important first step?
Why is being organized important at school and in life?
Being organized and prepared is helpful so that you can find things right away, you can manage your time better, and your materials are better taken care of. In addition, at school we have "classroom" supplies. This helps keep things in place so all students can use them and have something nice.
If someone ELSE is doing something unexpected, should we do it to? Why or why not?
No. You are in control of you! Show our Lion Pride in all you do.
.... let it go or ignore
1. Respectfully tell them that you can't talk now, but can finish the conversation later.
2. Move away
3. Give them a signal
If you need to set a boundary with someone, what could you say?
Internal distractions: being hungry, tired, big feelings, thoughts/mindsets
External distractions: technology, books, toys, sounds, talking to others...
Give an example of a helpful and an unhelpful thought
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A BIG problem -- because it's an emergency and someone is hurt or could get hurt because it's dangerous
When might it be ok to "blurt"?
What phrase might you use to respectfully blurt?
... if someone is in danger or in trouble!
... if the teacher gives you a signal that it's ok for verbal overlap.
... Excuse me please....?
No -- taking a break or a few moments to calm down first is a smart choice! We need to make sure our thinking brains and our connection hearts are ready to try again.
Name three things you can do to help you stay focused.
Use a tool
Coach your brain (self talk)
Take a break
Ignore distractions/put them away/take care of your needs
Remember your goal
Why would a positive mindset help you get further in life and in school?
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