FEELINGS
CALM-DOWN TOOLS
FRIENDSHIP
Empathy
100

Name one feeling you might have when you’re excited.

Happy/Excited

100

Name one way to calm your body.

Deep breathing, counting

100

What is one kind thing you can say to a friend?

Compliment, thank you

100

What does empathy mean?

Understanding how someone else feels

200

How might your body feel when you are nervous?

Sweaty hands, fast heartbeat, butterflies, tense

200

What should you do if you feel very angry in class?

Take a break, breathe, ask for help

200

How can you be a good listener?

Eye contact, quiet body, no interrupting

200

Name one kind thing you can say to someone who is sad.

“Are you okay?” / “I’m here for you”

300

What feeling might you have if someone hurts your feelings?

Sad / Mad

300

Why is it helpful to calm down before solving a problem?

Helps you think clearly

300

What can you do if a friend says “no” to playing?

Respect their choice, find another activity

300

Why might someone act grumpy even if they aren’t mad at you?

They’re having a tough day

400

How can you tell if a friend is feeling upset?

Facial expression, tone of voice, body language

400

Show or explain your favorite calm-down strategy.

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400

True or False. If someone is your friend that means they are allowed to invade your personal space whenever they want.

False. Boundaries!!
400

Why is it important to notice how others feel?

It helps us be kind and supportive

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