Feelings
Good Choices
Friendship Skills
Calm Down Tools
What would you use (coping skill)
100

You feel shaky, worried, and your heart beats fast before a test. What feeling might this be?

Anxiety / Nervous

100

Someone drops their books in the hallway. What is a good choice?

Help them pick them up

100

What are two polite words we use when asking for something?

Please and thank you

100

Name one way to calm your body when you're upset.

Deep breathing, counting, stretching

100

You feel frustrated for losing a game during recess, what coping skills would you use?

Walk away, take a deep breath, think of my happy place, positive self-talk, talk to someone about my feelings etc.

200

You feel upset because your friend didn’t sit with you at lunch. What feeling might this be?

Sad / Hurt

200

Your friend asks to copy your homework. What is the best choice?

Say no and encourage them to do their own work

200

Your friend is talking to you. What should you do to show you are listening?

Look at them, stay quiet, pay attention

200

If you're feeling frustrated with schoolwork, what is one thing you can do?

Ask for help, take a short break, try again

200

You are very tired in class, but you have to pay attention during SIPPS.  What coping skills can you use?

Take a deep breath, ask for a quick break (drink of water or bathroom), do a stretch, positive self-talk, think of my happy place, use a fidget

300

If you feel really angry, what is one healthy thing you could do to calm down?

Take deep breaths, count to 10, talk to an adult, take a break

300

You accidentally bump into someone while running. What should you do?

Apologize / Say sorry

300

You and a friend both want the same swing at recess. What is a fair solution?

Take turns

300

Taking slow deep breaths helps your body do what?

Calm down / relax

300

You feel nervous about taking a test, what coping skills would you use?

Talk to someone about my feelings, write about my feelings, take a deep breath, positive self-talk, use  a fidget, take a deep breath etc.
400

Your teammate scores the winning point and you feel happy for them. What feeling is that?

Proud / Excited / Happy

400

You see someone sitting alone at lunch looking sad. What is a kind thing to do?

Invite them to sit with you / ask if they’re okay

400

Your friend feels sad because they lost a game. What is something supportive you could say?

“Good try,” “You’ll get it next time,” or comfort them

400

Why is it important to calm down before solving a problem?

So you can think clearly and make good choices

400

You are ANGRY and feel like you are losing control.  What coping skill would you use?

Walk away, take a break, take a deep breath, talk to someone about my feelings, use a fidget etc.

500

Name two things your body might do when you feel really angry.

Heart beating fast, fists clenching, face getting hot, yelling, tight muscles

500

You feel very angry at a classmate. What are two better choices instead of yelling or hitting?

Walk away, talk to a teacher, take deep breaths, use words to explain feelings

500

What does compromise mean in a friendship?

Both people give a little so everyone is happy / meeting in the middle

500

Name two things you could do to calm down when you're very angry at school.

Deep breathing, talk to a teacher, take a break, go to calm corner, count to 10

500
Is it ok to practice coping skills even if you are feeling happy?

YES!  This is the best way to be able to master using coping skills for when you have bigger emotions that are hard to handle like anger or sadness. 

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