Types of Abuse
What is one example of emotional abuse?
Name calling, manipulation, blaming, insults, cursing, jealousy, control, threats, intimidation
What is one example of a healthy behavior in a relationship?
Compromise, respect, trust, honesty, sharing, listening, quality time, etc.
Is conflict the same thing as fighting? yes or no?
No
What is one example of an appropriate boundary?
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What are some reasons why someone might stay in an unhealthy relationship?
Fear, love, finances, trying to change the other person, guilt, pressure, kids, etc.
What are two examples of physical abuse?
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Your partner/friend encourages you to pursue your dreams. What type of relationship is this?
Healthy Relationship
What is one healthy way to engage in conflict?
listening, taking turns speaking, keeping a calm voice, stating your boundaries, taking some time to cool down before speaking, equal time, etc.
What is a boundary?
Keywords: limits, an invisible fence stating where one person begins and one person ends, what is okay and what is not.
Who can be in an unhealthy relationship?
Anyone
What is one example of tech abuse?
sexting, demanding passwords, looking through phone/email without permission.
Your partner/friend supports your interests and passions by attending events that you are involved in (ex: musical concerts, sporting events, or community service events). What kind of relationship is this?
Healthy Relationship
What is one way you can avoid making your partner/friend defensive when talking about a difficult issue?
Use "I" statements, talk about your own feelings, try to understand where the other person is coming from, avoid accusing the other person
Can sexual assault occur between two people who know each other?
Yes
Is it healthy to be separately involved in activities or organizations outside of your relationship? yes or no?
Yes
What is gaslighting? Give an example.
Making a partner feel crazy and causes you to doubt your feelings, experiences, and instincts. "You're crazy", "It's all in your head."
Your partner/friend makes you feel like every problem in your relationship is always your fault. What type of relationship is this?
Unhealthy Relationship
What is something you can do to cool down during a disagreement?
Take a time-out from the disagreement or limit your discussion time, leaving the room, walk away, etc.
Boundaries can change based on the relationship. True or false?
True.
What is something you can do to ensure that you are taking care of yourself and keeping your sanity in a relationship?
Keep balance in your life (ex: between a relationship, friends, family, school/classes, work, and other activities)
What is a type of abuse not previously mentioned?
Sexual, psychological, spiritual or financial.
Your partner/friend is constantly keeping tabs on what you are doing and who you are with. What kind of relationship is this?
Unhealthy Relationship
What is one example of unhealthy communication?
Making threats, giving ultimatums (ex: Do this, or else!), accusing without listening, not being willing to apologize or take the blame, getting physical with your partner/friend, etc.
What is consent?
Asking permission/an agreement between two people/an enthusiastic yes!
What is the honeymoon phase in dating violence?
When the abusive partner attempts to apologize or shift blame after an explosion.