Feedback
Ladder of Inference
Social Pain
Communication
100

Asking a question that signals intent and allows receiver autonomy to give permission

What is the Micro-Yes?

100

We are surrounded by this everyday

What is observable data?

100

Exclusion can create someone to feel like this

What is an outsider?

100

"This is what I heard you say..."

What is Mirroring?

200

What was specifically seen or heard to help know what to increase, decrease, change or repeat

What is the Data Point?

200

Our minds filter out data based on our beliefs

What is select data from what I observed?

200

Our bodies consume this to combat social pain

What is focus energy memory sugar?

200

Mirroring, Validation

What are types of Active Listening?

300

When you remember to stop, breathe and remain calm when receiving feedback

What is not taking personally?

300

We do this based on our interpretations of the situation

What is make assumptions?

300

Distracted, emotional outbursts, lack of detail, absent

What is evidence someone may be experiencing social pain?

300

"I might not be understanding this, can you explain it in a different way?"

What is validation?

400

Feedback is something to learn from

What is the benefit of getting feedback?

400

We do this based on our interpretations and assumptions

What is draw conclusions?

400

Zero tolerance for discussions that can lead to exclusionary topics

What is something we can do to help build inclusion?

400

Considered to be the richest medium for communication

What is face to face?

500

Determine how the people you are communicating with operate

What is Customize the Communication?

500

We do this based on our beliefs

What is take actions?

500

The part of the brain that lights up do to exclusion, unscientific name

What is the pain part of the brain?

Pain sensors

500

Considered the leanest medium for communication

What are images?

M
e
n
u