Red Flags
Someone wants to move very fast in a relationship and says “I love you” right away.
love bombing?
Mixing substances like alcohol and pills increases risk of this.
overdose
Trusting this feeling can help keep you safe in risky situations.
your gut/instinct
Your partner respects your boundaries and listens to you.
healthy love
What is one reason someone might ignore their gut feeling in an unsafe situation
fear of being rude, pressure to fit in, self-doubt, or not wanting to overreact
A person pressures you to keep secrets from your friends or family.
isolation/manipulation
A drug that slows down your body and breathing (like alcohol).
a depressant
A safe place to go if you feel unsafe in public.
store / public building
Your partner gets jealous and angry when you hang out with others.
control
Why can red flags sometimes be hard to recognize in the moment
because of emotions, trust, normalization, or manipulation (ex: love bombing)
They apologize but keep repeating the same harmful behaviour.
A cycle of harmful behaviour
Why is today’s drug supply more dangerous than before?
contamination (ex: fentanyl)
One way to create an exit plan from an uncomfortable situation.( Name 3)
a code word / fake call / texting a friend
They say “If you loved me, you would…”
manipulation
Why is it important to recognize red flags early instead of later
Because it helps prevent harm, protects safety, and makes it easier to leave before things escalate.
They check your phone, location, or social media without permission.
invasion of privacy?
Signs someone may be overdosing.(need at least 2)
slow/no breathing, unconsciousness, blue lips
Why is sharing your location with a trusted person helpful?
increasing safety/accountability
A relationship where both people feel safe, respected, and equal.
healthy relationship
Your friend’s partner is showing controlling behavior, but your friend defends them. What is the BEST way to respond
staying supportive, not judging, expressing concern, and keeping communication open
They make you feel guilty for setting boundaries or saying no
manipulation
Someone you trust says they’ve used something before and were “fine,” so it must be safe. Why is that not reliable information?
everyone’s tolerance is different, contaminants, and past experiences don’t guarantee safety
Name 2 risks of accepting rides or going somewhere with someone you don’t fully trust.
loss of control, isolation, danger, etc.
Name 2 differences between love and control.
trust vs jealousy, respect vs pressure, freedom vs isolation
Explain how substance use can increase vulnerability in unsafe situations
mpaired judgment, slower reaction time, reduced awareness, and increased risk of harm/exploitation