Buzzwords
A shared interest, goal, or activity among people that fosters collaboration or unity.
What is common interest?
Sharing your private thoughts, feelings, and history to help other understand your point of view better
What is disclosure?
Level of Friendship where you hang out frequently, are often in the same CLIQUE, spend a lot of their free time together
What is Best Friend?
What you should base your planned activities on
What are common interests?
Laughing and smiling, nodding their head yes, and complimenting your joke are all examples of this kind of humor feedback.
What is laughing WITH you (good humor feedback)?
Telling someone about yourself, and them telling you about themselves.
What is trading information?
Aggressive, passive, assertive.
What are the communication styles?
This type of question helps you to maintain and have longer conversations
What is open-ended question?
The proper time to leave a get together
What is waiting for a pause in activities?
This type of joke is shared exclusively by a small group of people.
What is inside joke?
An excuse or reason you give to someone when you are trying to leave a conversation or end a call.
What is a cover story?
IPARS includes these words as a guide to help improve self advocacy
What is Inventory, Provide, Ask, Respond, Summarize?
This is a specific item (phone, book, or something else) that you use to make it look like you are focused on that when you are attempting to enter a conversation
What is a prop?
Who, What, Where, When and How are examples of
What is the 5 W’s of get togethers
This is the first step you should take when ending a phone call.
What is wait for a pause?
A meeting of a group of people with a shared interest that come together on the basis of that interest.
What is a social activity?
This communication style involves when a person avoids expressing their opinion or feelings in order to avoid hurting others or making them angry
What is passive communication style?
When this is happening after you try to build a connection, people tend to seek you out to do things, talk to you and respond to your attempts to talk, give you contact info
What is peer acceptance?
What you should do if plans change during the get-together
What is go with the flow?
Give an example of a cover story for why you are calling someone on the phone.
What is “I was just calling to see how you are doing.”?
An individual’s ability to effectively communicate, convey, negotiate, or assert their own interests, desires, needs, and rights
What is self advocacy?
This part of IPARS is when you and the other key person discuss what you both came to the conclusion of to make sure you are on the same page
What is summarize?
Name at least two things you should not do when trading information with someone
Don't be repetitive, Don’t brag, Don’t be argumentative, Don’t police, Don’t tease
Name 3 rules for get togethers
What is activity based, guests pick activities, go with the flow, don’t invite people unexpectedly, don’t ignore, don’t tease, stick up for friends, don’t argue, don’t police, be a good sport, suggest changes, trade information, keep short and sweet
Identify three details you should include in a voicemail message.
What is... Who you are, Who you are calling for, When you are calling, A cover story for calling, Your phone number, Goodbye