Think/Know/Guess
Expected Behaviors
Can Do
Are You Here
Conversation Enhancers vs. Stoppers
100
You learned about it in the past or you are experiencing right now using your senses (See/Hear/Smell/Taste/Feel)
What is to KNOW something
100
True or False: The best way to participate in a group or a class is to think about "just me"
What is false
100
True or False: Jessica likes it when I say I "Can't Do Something"
What is False. Jessica would rather I say I can not YET do something.
100
To be the best listener I can be I should listen with ______________.
What is listen with your whole body
100
Stopper: I'm bad at math
Enhancer: I need more practice
200
To create/have your own thoughts in your mind
What is to THINK?
200
I should _______________ instead of thinking about "just me."
What is think about others
200
True or False: If I can not YET do something, I will NEVER EVER be able to do it.
What is False. If you can't YET do something, then it gives you something to work towards, learn about, ask for help, and practice.
200
To best participate in group or class, I need to be present with both my body and my ______________.
Brain
200
Stopper: I am not finishing this
Enhancer: I need help to finish this
300
To take in all of the information we KNOW and to use our THOUGHTS to fill in the missing pieces
What is to GUESS?
300
(2 answers required) True or False: Although often we have "good thoughts" about others...sometimes we have "weird thoughts" based on another persons behavior. True or False: Everyone always has "good thoughts" based on my behavior. I would never have a behavior to cause someone to have a "weird thought".
What is 1) True 2) False
300
The "button" I should push when I am feeling stuck.
What is the turbo button
300
True or False: We can listen with our eyes?
What is True Remember you can always learn more if you are watching what is going on around you. Example: If someone says what do you think of that over there and you aren't "listening with your eyes" then you will not know what they are talking about.
300
Stopper: It's good enough...
Enhancer: How can I make it better?
400
True or False: Guesses are ALWAYS right?
What is False. Sometimes Guesses are right but sometimes they are not, that is why it is important to ask the person if you know you are guessing. Example: Are you mad because your phone broke? (The answer could be yes and your guess was right, or it could be no and the person could be mad about something else.)
400
The activity used to describe good thoughts vs weird thoughts?
Why did we use red pens to describe weird thought behaviors and blue pens to describe good thought behaviors. Recognizing that most of us will have a combination of both colors, and even though you can't remove a red pen, you can fill a person's thoughts with so many blue pens that they hide the red pen?
400
The question I could ask when I have a problem and am feeling stuck.
What is "What can I do today/this week/this month to help make things better"
400
________________ is an example of whole body listening.
What is having your feet on the ground, facing the person, not fidgeting with your hands in a distracting way. (There may be other appropriate examples--jeopardy announcer decides if it applies)
400
Stopper: You're terrible...I'm better than you are
Enhancer: Good job! Nice Try!
500
True or False. You should NEVER Guess.
What is False. Sometimes you have to guess based on the information you have. But, just make sure you remember that Guesses aren't always right.
500
A moment when a person has a behavioral or communication error that may cause others to have "weird thoughts". Not necessarily a bad thing, just an opportunity to remind each other that we have to think about how our behavior impacts others.
What is rubber chicken moments (just chicken moment would also be acceptable)?
500
In Mawi's story he said we should push the Turbo Button instead of the "poor me" button when we have a problem or feel stuck. This is the activity/experience that helped him come up with this idea.
When he was playing basketball on a video game with his brother, his brother kept winning. He couldn't figure out why his brother always one, until one day he found out on the back of the controller there was a button he don't know about. This button helped the players jump higher and run faster at certain times. Mawi said this is like life, if you seem to be just a little slower than everyone else, you should push your turbo button and figure out what you can do to get better.
500
Something you would say to someone if you noticed they are not thinking about the same topic or activity as everyone else.
What is "I noticed your brain is not in group/class" Then you could include something encouraging like, "I really am curious what you have to say about this." or "Class/group is even better when we all participate."
500
Stopper: This is a terrible day
Enhancer: Even though this isn't the best day, not every day is like this
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