Milestone Checklist
Should Addison be able to listen to limits set for her right now, yes or no and why?
no, her brain is not capable
Does addison still need you while playing?
Yes, "secure base"
Does Addison understand ownership?
no
How does having a regular routine support emotional regulation?
having a predictable day helps her know what to expect, helps with transitions
should Addison have unlimited screen time, why?
no, we limit screen time because it takes all her attention away
how can you help Addison learn ownership?
My shoes, your hat etc.
Why might playing with other children be difficult for Addison at this age?
sharing, jealousy, ownership
what stage of social and emotional development is Addison in?
Discovery
what are ways to support Addison when she plays with other children?
giving her a special toy, asking children to play age-appropriate games, taking her away from a stressful environment.
offer choices, model good manners, comfort her, praise her, read books about emotions, etc.
What is the idea of 5 steps to success?
only helping Addison with the part of the task she needs help with.
Should Addison be scolded when she does not share or has a temper tantrum? why?
no, her brain does not yet understand and is making the connections, Addison needs support.
what is important when setting limits?
on her level, use yes and no clearly, keep explanations brief and consistent.
how can you encourage her curiosity?
encouraging her to do things by herself, encourage exploration and movement, show her you understand her feelings, provide an interesting environment, etc.
What are some ways to set limits for Addison?
using safety words, using calm firm voice, getting her interested in something else, remove her from a space or activity, avoid asking questions that can be answered with no, give choices.