Physical Boundaries
How can you communicate no, nonverbally?
shaking your head, backing away, waving your finger to show "no"
Does consent mean you say yes to everything, even if you don't want to do it?
No! That is not consent. It is important you know what you are doing and that you want to do it
You see someone new at lunch, what's a friendly way to say hello?
What is “Hi, my name is ___. What’s your name?”
This nonverbal signal, like crossing arms or avoiding eye contact, can indicate someone wants more space or time
Social Cues
You sent someone a message online, and they haven’t replied. What should you do?
What is wait patiently or not send more messages right away?
If someone says no to a hug or physical touch, what should you do?
stop, and respect their choice
What does consent look like when someone gives it?
The person looks comfortable, happy, feels safe and content with what they are doing. The person has told you yes to what you have asked
True or false: Asking someone a question is a good way to start a conversation
True
This term describes the physical distance people prefer to keep between themselves and others in social settings.
personal space
True or false: It’s okay to share your phone number or address with someone you just met online.
False! Do not share your personal info with someone you have just met
If someone is standing in your personal bubble, what can you say to them?
"Can you please give me some space" OR "You're a little too close, I need some room"
What does consent look like from you?
Participants provide answers
You want to join a group conversation. What is something polite you can say?
“Can I join you?” or “Is it okay if I sit here?”
True or False: Everyone has the same comfort level with personal space and social interaction
False - everyone has different levels of comfort that must be respected
Before posting a photo of a friend online, what should you do?
ask for their permission
Name one way you can tell by a person's body language or facial expressions that they do NOT want to be touched
upset facial expression, moving away
If you initially said yes to doing something with a friend or romantic partner, are you allowed to change your mind if you decide you don't want to do it?
Yes! if you feel unsure, unsafe or uncomfortable in a situation you can always change your mind and say no after saying yes
If someone doesn’t answer your question right away, what should you do?
Give them time, try again later if it seems that it may not be a good time to talk
If someone steps back when you get too close, they’re showing they want more of this ..
Personal Space
Why is it important to think before you post something emotional, angry, or very personal online—even if your account is private
once something is posted, it can be saved, shared, or seen by others, and it may affect your relationships, safety, or future opportunities
Do you need to stay in a physical place (the mall, a crowded area, a dinner, a concert, a party) if you feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable?
No! Let the people you are with know that you need to remove yourself from the area. Make sure a friend or family member knows where you are going
Are you allowed to ask questions about an activity to gather more information before saying yes and giving your consent?
Yes! You can ask as many questions as you need to feel comfortable and sure of the activity you are doing
What is something kind you can say to help start a conversation?
“I like your shirt” or “You did a good job on that drawing"
What can you do if someone is not respecting your decision of saying no
Tell a trusted friend or family member, or caregiver
True or False: You should not talk to people online that you have never met in person
False! It's okay to connect with people online, just make sure you are being safe and not sharing personal information when first getting to know someone