Social Skills
True or False: If I really need something, it's okay to show up at my friend's house without calling first.
False. You should always call before showing up at someone's house, in case they are busy or sleeping.
What is one thing you can do to be a good friend?
Listen to your friends and support them when they need help!
What is a good question to ask someone you just met?
“What are your favorite hobbies?” or “How was your weekend?”
Someone you don’t know well asks very personal questions. What is a safe and appropriate response?
I can give a vague response, change the topic, or say I’m not comfortable answering.
You send a text to a friend and don’t get a response for hours. You notice they’re active on social media. What are two appropriate ways to handle this without jumping to conclusions or escalating the situation?
I can remind myself that people may be busy or choose not to respond right away. I can wait before sending another message, or later check in calmly instead of sending multiple texts or accusing them.
True or False When someone does not quickly respond to my question, I should repeatedly ask them until they answer.
False. They may be thinking of an answer, and repeatedly asking would be annoying and frustrating to others.
How often should you check in with a friend to maintain a strong relationship?
Regularly, but not too often. It depends on the friend and the relationship.
What is a good way to keep a conversation going if it starts to lag?
Ask a follow-up question related to what the other person said.
Someone makes a threat “as a joke.” What should you consider before deciding how to respond?
I should take it seriously and consider safety, intent, and whether to report it.
A person you met online sends you a screenshot or photo and asks you to send one back. What are the risks, and what’s a safe response?
Images can be saved or shared without my permission. A safe response is to not send photos and keep communication limited or end it.
You realize mid-conversation that you’ve been talking much more than the other person. What should you do in that moment?
I should pause and ask the other person a question or invite their opinion.
You shared something personal with a friend and later regret it. What’s a reasonable next step?
I can ask the friend to keep it private and be more cautious about what I share next time.
You want to start a conversation but the other person is on their phone. What should you consider before approaching?
I should notice their body language and decide whether to wait or ask briefly if it’s a good time to talk.
A peer pressures you to do something that could get you in trouble. What’s a firm but socially appropriate refusal?
I can say no confidently without over-explaining and remove myself if needed.
You’ve been chatting with someone on Discord for a few weeks while gaming. They ask for your real name and school “just to know who you are.” What is the safest response?
I shouldn’t share personal information like my real name or school. I can keep the conversation within the game or server and change the topic or say I’m not comfortable sharing that.
True or False It would be rude for me to ask friends to buy my lunch every day until I have enough money.
True. Every now and then friends like to help you out, but if you are ALWAYS asking your friends to do something for you, they will grow tired of it.
What should you do if a friend says something that hurts your feelings?
Let them know how it made you feel and give them a chance to apologize.False. That is very rude.
You want to join a conversation where two classmates are already talking. What is a respectful way to enter the conversation?
Wait for a pause, listen first, then add a relevant comment or ask a question related to what they’re saying.
You overhear friends planning something risky. When is it important to speak up or get help?
If someone could get hurt, it’s important to speak up or tell a trusted adult.
Someone you just met online asks to move the conversation from a public server to private DMs. What should you consider before agreeing?
I should think about whether I trust them, if there’s a reason to keep it public, and that private messages reduce accountability and safety.
During a discussion, you strongly disagree with someone. How can you express your opinion without escalating the situation?
I can acknowledge their opinion and calmly share mine using ‘I’ statements without insulting or raising my voice.
A friendship feels one-sided. What are two signs of this, and what’s a respectful way to respond?
Signs include always being the one to reach out or give support. I can talk about it or create healthier boundaries.
Name a topic that is safe to talk about with someone you don’t know well.
School activities, favorite movies, or the weather.
You’re at a party and feel uncomfortable with how someone is acting toward you. What are two ways you could keep yourself safe?
I can leave the situation, find a trusted person, call for help, or set a clear boundary.
An online friend wants to meet in person and says they’re ‘exactly your age.’ What is the safest next step?
I should not agree to meet. I should tell a trusted adult and remember people online may not be who they say they are.