5 year Olds
School Age Children (6-9)
Pre Teens(10-12)
Teens (13-15)
Teens (16-18)
100

Their Play Expanding

What is, starting to make and choose friends and to engage in play that involves directions, expectations, and cooperation.

100

Independence.

What is, learning to detach from parents.

100

Consistent Moodiness

What is, starting puberty. 

100

They know best 

What is, Arguing with parents. 

100

Relationships. 

What is, starting to develop short but intense relationships. 

200

Simple Chores

What is, they can start putting their plate and cup up.

200

Meaningful friendships.

What is, growing more attention towards friends and valuing friendships.

200

Eager to fit in 

What is, expanding their social lives. 

200

Peer Pressure 

What is, experimenting with different personas and activities based on what their peers are doing.

200

Importance

What is, friends and family becoming equal in importance.

300

Testing limits.

What is, Regressing in behavior and even having the occasional meltdown.

300

Putting themselves in someone else's shoes.

What is, sense of Justice.

300

Questioning Authority

What is, introduction to drinking, smoking, or self harm.  

300

Romances 

What is, starting to find interest in dating and romantic relationships. 

300

Adulting 

What is, becoming fearful of living on their own with their own responsibilities. 

400

Speech and Language growth.

What is, engaging in conversations and sharing their opinions.

400

Caring about others opinions

What is, learning how to manage emotions and regulate moods.

400

Exploring identity 

What is, changing hair, hobbies, clothing, or friends. 

400

Emotional Regulation.

What is, listening to music, journaling, or talking too friends. 

400

Opinion making. 

What is, being able to evaluate their own opinion without the crowd.  

500

RED FLAGS  

What is, Hyperactivity or constant movement beyond regular playing. Or, frequent, unexplainable temper tantrums.

500

Decentralization

What is, masking their true thoughts and see things from another person's point of view.

500

Growing Independence  

What is, separating from their family, finding their own solution. 

500

Sexual Orientation 

What is, knowing what their sexuality is and being comfortable with it. 

500

Parents

What is, being able to go to their parents for guidance and help. 

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