Spooky Feelings
You fee nervous before your class Halloween parade. What can help you calm down?
Take deep breaths, think happy thoughts, or talk to a friend.
A younger kid bumps into you at a Halloween party and spills your drink. What’s a kind response?
Stay calm, say “It’s okay,” and help clean up.
What’s one “kindness potion” you could mix for your classroom?
Helping others, saying nice words, sharing, or including everyone.
A friend says they want to be in your Halloween group, but there’s not much room. What could you do?
Try to include them or find another way to spend time with them.
You promised to stay with your group while trick-or-treating, but your friend wants to run ahead. What do you do?
Stay with the group and remind your friend about the rule.
If your friend says they're not scared, but you can tell they are, what could you do?
Offer to stay with them or tell them it's okay to feel scared.
Why do manners matter even when you’re wearing a mask or costume?
Because people can still hear your words and see your actions.
Why does being kind sometimes take courage?
Because it can be hard when others aren’t being kind.
Why do good friends sometimes disagree — and that’s okay?
Because everyone has different opinions; it’s part of friendship.
What’s a responsible choice if you see candy on the ground?
Leave it there or tell an adult — don’t eat it.
How can you tell the difference between feeling nervous and excited?
They can feel similar, but nervous means worried; excited means looking forward to something.
If you disagree with a classmate about who has the best costume, what’s a polite way to handle it?
Say, “We both have awesome costumes!” or agree to disagree.
How can you show kindness to someone you don’t know well?
Smile, introduce yourself, or give them a compliment.
What’s something a “boo-tiful” friend does when someone else gets attention?
They cheer them on and don’t get jealous.
Why is being responsible part of being a good friend?
Because friends can trust you and feel safe with you.
Why is important to name your feelings? Even spooky ones?
So you can understand them and make good choices instead of reacting.
A “monster” in the hallway is growling at everyone. How can you respond respectfully?
Stay calm, ask them nicely to stop, or tell an adult if it keeps happening.
What happens when you spread kindness like magic dust?
It spreads — others feel good and want to pass it on.
How can you fix a friendship that feels “haunted” (you haven’t talked in a while)?
Send a note, say hi, or do something kind to reconnect.
You forgot your Halloween homework at home. What’s a responsible way to handle it?
Tell your teacher the truth and remember next time.
You’re excited for the Halloween parade, but then your costume rips right before it starts. You feel embarrassed and want to cry. What could you tell yourself to help handle that big feeling?
“I can still have fun even if my costume isn’t perfect.” OR “Accidents happen — I can stay calm and enjoy the day.”
At the class Halloween party, someone takes the last cupcake before you get one. You really wanted it. What’s the best way to handle it using your “monster manners”?
Take a deep breath, use kind words, and say something like, “That’s okay — maybe next time,” or ask the teacher if there are extras.
You see a classmate sitting alone at the Halloween craft table. You’re already having fun with your group. What could you do to mix a little kindness into your day?
Invite them to join your group, bring them supplies, or sit with them for a bit so they feel included.
Your friend tells you they don’t like your costume, and it hurts your feelings. What’s a good way to stay a “boo-tiful” friend even when you’re upset?
Tell them calmly that their words hurt your feelings, but you still want to be kind. You could say, “That hurt my feelings, but I still like you as my friend.”
You notice your group is getting too loud while walking through the neighborhood and it’s late. The grown-ups haven’t noticed yet. What’s the most responsible thing you can do?
Remind your group to quiet down because people might be sleeping and it’s respectful to stay calm and safe.