What can this be used for?
- Deep Breathing
-To help calm you down
-A fidget
Why is it important for people to share their feelings?
So that people understand and know how you feel.
True or False:
Talking to others about problems in our lives can help us feel better?
TRUE!
Talking to others allows us to share our emotions and problems so that we do not have to go through them alone.
What does anger look like? Name one
-yelling
-screaming
-head down
-red face
-tense body
-clenched fist
What is one way you can calm down?
- Getting Fresh Air
-taking a break
-taking a deep breath
- Talking to a Trusted Friend/Adult
- Exercising
- Playing Sports
- Talking to some one about your Feelings
What does it mean to be fair?
-sharing
-talking
-taking turns
True or False:
Breathing can help us calm down.
Deep breathing is a great coping skill to help you calm down when you feel big emotions.
name one way you can control your anger
deep breathing
going for a walk
Take a break
distract yourself
talk about your feelings
Are you allowed to have different ideas and thoughts than your friends?
Yes! We are allowed to feel differently.
If you and your friend had to decorate this butterfly, how would you make it fair?
We could talk about what colors we would want to add and then compromise or agree on a design. We can take turns coloring it.
True or False:
If you are feeling angry in a situation you should first STOP and calm down, then talk to the person when you feel calm.
TRUE!
You do not want to talk to someone when you are feeling angry this can make you do things that you may regret.
What are two things that can make someone angry?
being left out
being bullied
being called names
being told no
being embarrassed
losing a game
waiting
hard school work
What would you tell Mia in this situation?
You can tell her nicely that it is your jacket and you can help her find another one!
You and your sibling both want to watch TV. You begin to argue and get frustrated about who should watch TV. What is the first step you should do on deciding who gets to watch TV?
First you should STOP and calm down.
Then you can play paper rock scissors or take turns or come up with another way to decide who gets to watch tv first
True or False:
Being angry is bad.
FALSE!
It is okay to be angry, it matters what you do with that anger.
Anger Scenario
When Bryan gets told no in school, he will shut down and not do his work. Can you think of a better choice to make to deal with his anger?
take a deep breath
take a break and come back to his work
talk about his feelings
What is the first step to the problem solving process?
1. STOP 🛑
2. TALK 🗣
3. THINK 🤔
4. TRY 👍🏼
You are the first to line up but you have been line leader all week. Today another student wants to be line leader but line leader is your favorite job! What should you do to make it fair?
True or False.
You have to always agree with your friends NO matter what.
FALSE!
You are allowed to feel differently than your friends. It is okay!
When do you think it is ok to hit or throw something?
if you have to defend your life
if you have to defend someone you love from danger