Meeting New People or Reconnecting
Public Spaces
Offering Help
Social Gestures
100

Seeing someone again after some time but forgetting their name

I'm so sorry, your face is familiar, but I can't quite remember your name

Yeah, I feel like we’ve crossed paths before… I’m [their name],

100

Asking to take a chair from another table at a bar

Excuse me for interrupting, is this seat taken?

Not at all, go ahead!

100

Helping someone pick up dropped items

Oh, here, let me help you with that!

Oh, thank you so much!

100

Offering to help someone carry heavy items

That looks heavy—can I help you with that?


Oh, that’s really kind—yes, I’d love a hand, thanks!

200

Recognizing someone but unsure where you met them

You look really familiar—did we meet at [event/place] before?


Of course! I’m [their name]. Yes, we met at [place/event]



200

Breaking the ice in a waiting room

Waiting rooms are such a drag , aren’t they?

Haha, so true. Hopefully, they won’t keep us waiting too long!

200

Offering to a seat on public transport

Would you like to take this seat? I don’t mind standing

Thank you so much. That’s so thoughtful

200

Offering someone an umbrella in the rain

You’re getting soaked—want to share my umbrella for a bit?


That’s so kind of you! Let’s hope it stops raining soon

300

Joining a conversation someone is having about golf

I couldn’t help overhearing your conversation about golf ? That’s my favorite sport!


Oh absolutely—feel free to jump in! Do you follow the new LIV tournament?

300

Sharing a moment of humor waiting in the street with a crowd of people during a fire drill 

Guess we’re all in this together! The joys of evacuations!

Exactly! It’s like a test of patience for everyone


300

Offering directions if someone looks lost

You seem like you might need some help. What are you looking for?

Actually, I could use some help! I’m looking for [place].

300

Inviting someone to join you for a coffee during a break at work

Hey, I’m going to grab a coffee—want to join me?


Sure, I could use a break—let’s go

400

You're late for dinner and you introducing yourself to a group of people already sitting down. 


Hi everyone, I’m [your name]. 


400

Starting a conversation while watching an event (tennis)

Great game, right?


Oh, totally! It's absolutely massive

400

 Hold a door open for someone so they can enter first  

After you!

400

Offering to pay for the drinks as your guest is about to pay

No, no, it's on me

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