Think it or Say it!
Think it or Say it: I love your new haircut!
Say it. Compliments are always nice!
Your friend George sits in the back of the room, so he can have breaks to stand and pace and will have enough space to do so. You run to sit in his seat so he has to sit somewhere else. Is this expected or unexpected?
Definitely unexpected. If you would like to start a conversation with George, it is better to do so at lunch than to take his usual seat.
True or False: If I do not feel comfortable making eye contact I can occasionally use visual referencing.
Absolutely true!
What is an example of a hidden rule while eating?
Eat with your mouth closed, take small bites, don't take with your mouth full, use your napkin, etc.
Your friend's dog went missing. What can you say?
Example: I am so sorry. Is there anything I can do to help like make signs?
Think it or Say it: Your lunch smells so gross
Think it. Remember to ask yourself, is this a kind thing to say?
Expected or Unexpected. Holding the door open for others.
This is expected, but can seem like an unexpected surprise in a great way.
Typically, what type of vocal volume do you have to use in front of a bigger audience or when giving a presentation?
A louder vocal volume
What is a hidden rule?
Hidden rules are rules that you are expected to know, but they are not always written down or taught!
What is the Big 3?
Eyebrows, eyes, and mouth
Think it or Say it: Can you please help me with my math?
Say it. It is always a good idea to ask for help.
Expected or unexpected. Talking to a friend so loudly that others can hear your conversation.
Unexpected. Make sure to use a lower vocal volume since a conversation between friends is private.
What does the R stand for in the Body Basics acronym FEVER?
Relax
What is a hidden rule when watching a movie?
No talking
You forgot your field trip money at home. What size problem is this?
Small. It can be solved relatively quickly.
Think it or Say it: In the middle of a discussion about the Civil War, "I cannot wait until my birthday in June!"
Think it. Remember, is this the right time to share this information?
Expected or unexpected: Blurting out answers without raising your hand
Unexpected. The hidden rule is to raise your hand.
What can students do when the teacher starts the class and is speaking to everyone?
Put away electronics and use their Body Basics
Wear deodorant everyday, brush your teeth twice a day, take regular showers, etc.
True/False: You must have a date to go to a school dance like Homecoming or Prom
False! It is also really fun to go with friends.
What 3 questions do you ask yourself when trying to figure out if you should think or say something?
1. Is it kind? 2. Is it necessary? 3. Can it wait for a later time?
True or False. Behaviors that are expected for the situation tend to result in others feeling calm, neutral, or possibly even pleased.
True!
What is the acronym that we remember for Body Basics?
FEVER! Bonus if you can remember what 2 of the letters stand for in the acronym.
What is an example of a hidden rule at a restaurant?
Always tip your server, do not snap your fingers to get the server's attention, do not bring in food from other restaurants, do not literally lick any part of your plate clean, etc.
Give an example of sarcasm (i.e. where your message does not match your emotion.).
Remember sarcasm is either witty/funny between friends or it can come off as mean. Be careful how you use it.