Is there a problem?
Solve this problem.
What are they feeling?
What would you say?
What would you do?
100

You see your friend is sitting alone at lunch with watery eyes. 

Yes, there is a problem because your friend is feeling sad and you might want to help them. 

100

Your friend lost their backpack and needs help finding it. 

You can solve this problem by telling them you can help. You can help them try to find it around the school, or where they last left it. 

100

You notice your friend has a big smile on their face after receiving an acceptance letter from a college. 

They are feeling excited and happy about getting into a college! 

100

Your friend tells you they're nervous about a test coming up. 

"Hey, I believe in you!" or "Maybe we can study together."

100

Your friends are all going to a movie. You really want to go, but you weren't invited.

Tell your friends that you want to go with them. Or, you can also invite your friends to go do something else. 

200

Your friend keeps interrupting you while you are trying to tell a story to your friends.

Yes, this is a problem because you aren't able to share your story with others.

200

Your friend confesses to you that they are being cyberbullied on Instagram. 

To solve this problem, you could offer advice. For example, you can tell them to block the person bullying them or report them to Instagram. 
200

You see a classmate biting their nails and frowning before giving a presentation in front of the class.

They are feeling nervous/anxious to give the presentation in front of the class. 

200

Your friend tells you they're being bullied by another student.

"I'm sorry you're going through this." or "You should tell a teacher."

200

Your friend forgot their lunch at home and doesn't have any money to buy food today. 

You can share your own lunch. You can also tell them to try calling their parents to bring their lunch. 

300

Your teacher gives you a really difficult assignment, and you have trouble understanding how to do it.

Yes, this is a problem because you are unable to do the assignment. You don't know how to do it, so you can't start yet!  

300

You notice your friend is looking nervous before giving a presentation in front of the class. 

You can give them words of support, like "Don't worry, you're going to do great!"

300

Your friend huffs loudly and frowns while looking through their backpack. They can't find their phone! 

They are upset/mad/frustrated because their phone is missing! 
300

Your brother is upset because they tried out for a soccer team and didn't make it. 

"I'm sorry you didn't make it. Maybe next time." Or "It's okay, you can practice more and try again next year."

300

Your teacher asks you to go pick up something from a classroom you have never went to before. On the way there, you get lost. 

You could stop and ask someone where the classroom is for directions. You can also try to find the way back to class and ask your teacher for help. 

400

While taking a test, you notice your classmate is looking over your shoulder trying to copy off your paper. 

Yes, this is a problem because you can get in trouble with your teacher for cheating. 

400

Your friend is feeling left out because they weren't invited to a party. 

You can invite your friend to hang out with you instead, to help them feel better. 

400

Your friend missed a goal shot during a big soccer game. After the game, he was looking down at the ground with watery eyes. 

He is sad/disappointed because he missing a big goal during his soccer game.  

400

While telling your friend a funny story, you see that they're using their phone the whole time during your conversation.

"Hey, I'm trying to tell you a story and you aren't listening. That hurts my feelings."

400

You accidentally run into a classmate in the hall, knocking over all of their books onto the floor. 

You can offer help and help them pick up their books. You can also tell them you're sorry. 

500

You passed your teachers desk and accidentally bumped into it, knocking over a vase and breaking it on the floor. 

Yes, this is a problem because the the vase wasn't yours. Also, the glass on the floor can hurt someone! 

500

Your friend missed a whole week of school while sick and has tons of missed assignments! 

You can show them your notes or class materials to help them catch up. 

500

Your friend is talking gossip with her friends when her eyes get really big and her eyebrows go up. She says, "No way!"

She is surprised/shocked to hear the gossip.

500

You are confused in class and have a question for the teacher. 

"Hi Mrs/Mr ____, I have a question. Can you help me?"
500

You and a friend have been fighting lately, and you notice that they're posting memes about you on Instagram. 

You can privately talk to them and tell them that hurts your feelings. You can also tell them you're sorry for fighting. 

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